I met him at a club, I gave him my # he call me a cuple of days later. he Invited me to join him at a friend get togheter. I met him there and after everything was over he invited me to go to his house, I followed him in my car and stayed there for a cuple of hours we talked and you know we kissed. but it got late and I had to leave, he asked me to stay but I said no. we met again the nex day and well he again invited me to his place and well I was pretty drunk and slept with him. After we kept talking to each other and went out for about 2 months. we talked almost everyday till he went on a trip for the weekend, I did'nt hear anything from him in 6 days. I called him ones to see if everithing was ok but he did'nt answer, I left him a massage telling him to call me, since i did'nt hear anything I text him nex day telling him to call me. I did'nt hear from him till the next day he text me saying he was in jail! I did'nt reply, he called me the next day but ididnt anwer. should I call
2007-03-16 13:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Mystical M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like this relationship is on the way out quickly.
Just because you slept with him early in the relationship does not mean he thinks less of you. If it has been two months and problems are now occurring, it has nothing to do with when you slept together. Something else is going on.
2007-03-16 13:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by broc_lyrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back and see where it goes. Just don't get too attached in case is wasn't being honest about the jail thing. Now you have to play hard to get and if he really wants you then he will be the one doing the calling and texting from now on. Start going out with the girls or making other plans. Let him know you have a life outside of "him".
Oh and to some it might be bad to sleep with someone on the second date. But personally if your a grown adult it really doesn't matter what we think in here. I don't find it wrong at all. I mean I did it and I been with my bf for 7 months now and we live together, so something worked :-)
2007-03-16 20:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call and see if his story checks out becasue if he is not interested anymore you are going to get more suspicious stories and you should take them to the head. If you are wanting a serious relationship sleeping with a guy so soon is not a good thing. Women and men are different, women are more emotinal and men are not so much until they fall in love. They are going to try and sleep with you as soon as they can and they look to see who is the easiest. Then some want the girlfriend and benefits of having a girlfriend without the commitment. We ladies have to demand more and stand unite. The women who give the men these options make them think they can go after every woman in this way. We women have to have more self control, I am speaking from experience and not from judgement. I been there, girl.
2007-03-16 20:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by ChezNSamMom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends on what he'sn jail 4?
If something stupid, yes call
if something serious, get the hell out of that relationship!
2007-03-16 20:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Deerslayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, call. and generally if we get some on the second date we think, thank god, not a prude.
2007-03-16 20:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he in jail in the first place???
2007-03-16 20:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by 11:11 pm<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him anymore. in jail?
2007-03-16 20:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Brent W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋