A girl yesterday kicked me in the balls really hard because she thinks its funny to see guys almost vomit i guess... but as soon as i felt it, i raised my hand and hit her right across the face.
I didnt really do it intentionally, it was just a reaction, but she now has a black eye and told all her friends I did it because im a woman beater. I dont know what to do.
2007-03-16 13:23:53 · 36 answers · asked by bobby m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fool screw that ***** she kicked you in the balls she deserved that ****. Especially if you did nothing to her in the first place. I hope you taught her a lesson, hit her nice and hard, you don't kick guys in the nuts. SEriously though goodjob.
2007-03-16 13:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Was there anyone else present when this occured? I sure hope so because you're going to have a hard time getting anyone to believe your version of the story since people tend to believe whomever has the visible injury -- unless everyone knows this girl and she's well known for doing this to guys.
Otherwise it's going to be a typical he said/she said.
It's the honest people who seem to always get a**ed out.
But just remember: What goes around, comes around. Karma can be a real b**ch sometimes :)
However, that all being said:
DO NOT APOLOGIZE TO HER!!!
This is one of the very few and rare occassions where I believe it is perfectly okay to hit a girl. She had no business doing that.
As someone else stated above -- she can cause serious and irreversable (sp?) damage to a males genital and reproductive area by doing that. She's lucky she hasn't done that yet.
Hopefully she'll learn her lesson, even though she's too much of a chickens**t to admit the real reason why you hit her.
What you did was completely reactionary. At most, you should tell her that you feel bad that you hit her, but if she kicks you in the nuts again, you'll probably do the samething.
2007-03-16 13:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i say your action was completely justified. and im a girl and i'm even sticking with your side on this! if you had not hit her in the face, your balls would have been the victim instead, and she did it intentionally too! (whereas you had no evil intentions behind hitting her). if people see you in a negative way for doing that, then what would it make that girl? you just beat it to her before she did so that you wouldnt get hurt. its not like you wanted to give her a black eye. i say you should tell other people the real story, and im sure alot of other people will feel the same way about this (and those who still try to make you seem like the bad one are just doing it to go with the flow of others). dont ever feel bad for defending yourself or for standing up for yourself
hope all goes well! :]
2007-03-16 13:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by neffyiffy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually a man's first reaction when he is kicked in the balls is not offensive, it should have been defensive, i.e. grabbing your balls. If men normally punched a woman in the face when she kicked him in the balls, it wouldn't have been taught as a defensive measure for years for women. I seriously doubt she kicked you in the balls for a laugh-if she did that normally, she wouldn't have "all her friends" to run and tell. I am sure that there is more to this story...not that you deserved to get assaulted, of course, but people are capable of responding to violence without violence, and especially a man thinking to hit a woman! It's not like she kicked you in your brain...
2007-03-16 13:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say she kicked you in the nuts... She's lucky that that's all you did to her, because to be fair you should have kicked her in the ovaries...
She could have seriously injured you or made it so that you can never have children... that is also a sexual battery which is serious business- a felony in most states. You had a right to smack her back and don't owe her any apology whatsoever. Tell her that your fine to leave things as they are, but if she continues to go around getting people to call you a woman beater you are going to file sexual battery charges against her and she can go around trying to explain why the cops hauled her away.
2007-03-16 13:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In the future, I would wear protection around this girl. Since you are propably not standing up straight yet, and she has a black eye, simply tell the truth--she kicked you and you had a natural reaction. Her eye just happened to be in the way.
2007-03-16 13:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Katykins 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if it's an accident like you said then personally I can't really fault you for it. Your description of this girl didn't seem really flattering and it might not mean anything to her if you apologize, but if you feel like that's the right thing to do from a moral standpoint, then go right ahead. As for what she's telling her friends, that's just another way of trying to be nasty to you. Don't let it get to you.
2007-03-16 13:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzycat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have. and i AM a girl!! This girl wants to beat me up well she does. i have a fighting stance and then she punches me in the arm as hard as she can and thats hard!! (it left a bruise for 2 months!) she didnt break my arm but she almost did so i hit her in the stomach and she fell to the ground! (it was full of wood chips!) i didnt mean to! just a reaction like you said. then i kicked her in leg when she was and then left. i did that on purpose.i did that though because i hated her so much. she took a friend away from me and now shes not my bff anymore. well anywho i got in trouble but not that much cause i was just defending my self!! she got in alot cause shes the one who started it!but if i were you i would stay low for a bit. hide. go to another counry or city for about a monthe or so.im ok cause im im 5th grade and only 10.bye.(hope this helps abit somehow)
-golfizzle3331
2007-03-16 13:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by pretty picture 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, if it really happened that way then I don't really feel sorry for the girl because she kicked you in your genitals for absolutely no reason...but you shouldn't have hit her. I know, she hit you first but guys can get into a lot of trouble for putting their hands on a female. I just hope you don't get in trouble.
2007-03-16 13:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by KoKo.Licious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know u didn't mean it. Getting kicked in the balls hurts. It was just a natural reflex. She had no business doing that anyway. Anyone who hits deserves to get hit back. Boy or girl. Don't put your hands on anyone unless you want to get slapped back. Who cares what her friend says? They're just instegating anyway.
2007-03-16 13:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Self Defense!
2007-03-16 13:27:49 · answer #11 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋