I posted this once alreadu, but I only got two responses. My boyfriend of two 1/2 years broke up with me Tuesday night on the phone. He is on spring break right now. He called me on wed. to tell me that he didn't know when he wanted to get back together, but he knew it didn't want to be then. All I want to do is call him just to talk to him. I really want to get back with him. Any suggestions on whether or not I should call him and what I can do to get him back.
2007-03-16 13:23:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT call him. You must resist the urge to call. It feels like hell but you must not call.
You feel hurt and pained and you want to get back with him BUT you shouldn't. Stay away from him. Take back the power you've given him. someone like that doesn't deserve it.
Broke up with you on the phone after 2 years! That is enough reason never to speak to him again. That is cowardly and disresepctful.
HE doesn't know when HE wants to get back together. (if ever) Well, who made him GOD. Oh, you did, if you put up with his garbage. Sorry to sound harsh but do not fall for this.
You feel like you want him because he was with you for two years. He is habit, you may love him, you had plans with him, he was in your hopes for the future (at least somewhat) and he shattered that. NOw you want it back but even if he got back with you now it has changed. It can never be the same.
Get out, start a hobby, deal with the pain. Get your friends to occupy you so you do not call him or accept his calls when he realizes that you have moved on and then decided that he will be so kind as to give you another chance.
Move on.
2007-03-16 13:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait - this doesn't seem like the kind of thing you should rush into. When you both get back from spring break, talk to him in class or after school, when you're sure he's home - not in the hall, when you're both rushing to classes. He's sure to blow you off then. For now, have a happy spring break!
2007-03-16 20:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "didn't know " tell you a lot
but here is what I would do, if a girl break up with me and said that.
First, you have to find out why he broke up with you.
Second, determine if what he said is true.
Third, if you think it was ur fault, then try to see if you can make it up but if it is not ur fault or he doesn't wanna tell you then move on.
2007-03-16 20:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Meow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems kind of funny to me he broke up with you in time for spring break..... maybe he did this just so he can get his freak on and not feel guilty when he comes back to you. if he doesnt call you who cares; get over it. sounds like a slime ball to me.
2007-03-16 20:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and go out with your girlfriends. It will make him wonder what you've been up to since he broke up with you. Eventually he will call you and want you back in his life....
2007-03-16 20:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally call him back because if your relationship lasted that long, hes the guy for you.
2007-03-16 20:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him why he broke up with you and ask if there's anything that you could do to be a better girlfriend. hun, i'm really sorry. i know that must suck really bad. good luck!
2007-03-16 20:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by marebear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make him call you
2007-03-16 20:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋