We talk a little but not too much. I don't wanna sound weird by just randomly going up to her and asking her out so how should I approach and talk to her over the next week to get her to go out with me? (Girls answers preffered)
2007-03-16 13:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by Cowboys and Tar Heels Fan Always 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't ask her out she will never know that you really like her. Just ask her trust me just be your self and ask if she as that good she will go out with you. if she says no then don't be discouraged she will soon see how good you are and what a mistake she had made.
2007-03-16 13:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. well, first things first. YOU are a verrrryyy special person, my friend, because you're in your right mind and aren't totally petrified of the girl (like some are) because you've actually TALKED to her *applauds*
ok, sorry. it's just that most people on here are total beggars and have no idea what to do, so uh. thank you!
but. i agree with you. it'd be kinda out there to just go up to her and ask her out, even if you worded it perfectly. you definitely don't wanna freak her out. however, i don't think you should approach her at all. i'd wait until you two end up near each other (by chance, not because you made it happen) so it'd be more natural-feeling, and it wouldn't seem awkward for her.
try to get some conversation in (get to her to laugh and MAJOR THUMBS UP) and try to get it in when you think the conversation isn't going anywhere, or you guys have to leave, the conversation just naturally ended, etc. etc.
just make it seem flowy (damn that's not a word....oh well...), because otherwise it'll either a) creep her out or b) make it wayyy awkward.
and don't be nervous =] if you get rejected for some reason, she should be nice about it. if she isn't, then she wasn't worth it, but knowing that you really like her, that shouldn't happen.
good luck
~FV
2007-03-16 13:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by echo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say you like her but you gotta get to really know the person. Try to spark up a conversation with her more don't just try to jump into a relationship right away give it time. If you jump into it without really knowing the girl well you might find out you don't like her afterwards and then it wouldn't work out. so for now just talk to her more get the courage up and ask her to hang out, DON"T go to a movie thats the worst thing cause you don't get to know her you just sit there and watch the movie and thats about it. Anyways give it time hang out with her more become her friend sord of, find out if she likes you back then try asking her out.
2007-03-16 13:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by David M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask her next week because I wouldn't go out with someone I don't really talk to unless I secretly liked them back too. If you are sure that she likes you back then you should ask her but if you aren't..just give some time and try to talk to her more.
2007-03-16 13:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would try to talk more. Girls can usually turn guys down because they don't know each other well enough. Get to know her and then it will be easier to casually approach her about going out. Hope I helped! Good luck.
2007-03-16 13:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you won't sound weird! Girls LOVE it when guys make the first move - and I know it's true vice versa, but girls do like this. Even if she doesn't accept, you'll make her feel great knowing that someone actually has the guts to ask her out!
2007-03-16 13:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get to know her a little bit more. you should go up to her and ask her how she is doing and how was her day. Say nice things to her, like she looks good to day. Start off like that. then if everything is going good. as her out for dinner or something fun.
2007-03-16 13:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she is doing one weekend and see if she has plans, then be like "hey have you seen ____ movie" and if she says no, then ask if she wants to see it with you ... it is casual and she is more likely to say yes and then you two can go further from there
2007-03-16 13:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Modern-day Ask Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what sh elikes and look her up in the phonebook or ask a friend for her number and cal her back and talk about something ur both interested in.....and after a while ask her out
2007-03-16 13:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her more. get to know her and let her get to know you. you never know, maybe she'll ask you out first :]
2007-03-16 13:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by spongebob1527 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋