when urnot allowed to have a boyfriend what do u do? im not allowed to have a boyfriend and i like these three guys..............
1.) Mike- known as the player of the school....really funny and sweet, has his days when hes a jerk.....
2.) Jimmy- Preety kool, quarterback of the football team, and i told him i like him like that and am waiting for response....really fun to be around, can make me smile even when we arent talking......
3.) Anthony- Really kool person typical guy, but i feel like i can tell him almost anything.....we talk on the bus and in class......
which one do u think i like more? and which one shoudl i pick? give me your break down of their descrip....and what to do im not allowed to have a boyfriend until after college and i think about the first two guys almost constantly......
2007-03-16 13:10:22 · 17 answers · asked by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im thinking 2 and 3 are cool..but wait, just be friends with them. i mean, you should listen to your parents on this because they could go on a rampage if you were to date earlier..but if you want to show that your ready, just show how responsible you can be.
2007-03-16 14:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and immature. A matured girl or woman, knows it when she loves a man. She never ask others to figure out her heart. You should give yourself time to grow up , probably after college u'll be wiser.From the impression of things, u're having ''puppy love''. And since u can't decide for yourself, I fear u'll end up being used by horny boys, or worst a baby when u're barely old enough to take care of it.
From my high school experience, the guys at school are just discovering their sexuality, coping with constant surge of testosterone. For instance, Jimmy is the popular football guy, so he'll be most likely talking to many girls and many girls would be drooling over him and crowding around him after the game or pactice.Can u handle the heat in the kitchen?I'm not saying it is uncool to date popular guys...I now the feeling it gives..
Since you ask , I suggest you take Anthony. He seems down-to-earth, and will be there for you. It's a better feeling rather than being with the most popular guy who doesn't commit as much to you, or decides to be jerks when he feels like it. Besides, the sporty/popular type shares his time over too many things; football practice,girls,camp.
Think about this...
EDIT: Girls/women are always attracted to what they cannot have...
2007-03-16 20:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick Anthony! Mike is a known "player", what makes you think he won't play you? Jimmy hasn't given you a answer? What's up with that? Either he does or doesn't. Don't wait for him. You already have a connection with Anthony, so what's stopping you?????
2007-03-16 21:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by rnmkr62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with Jimmy. He sounds so nice and funny guys are great to be around!!
I know how you feel, I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until I am 23!!! SO not fair! But you could have a bf and not tell your parents (I know, how horrible and immature...but it's what I am doing). I have been friends w/ this guy and I really really liked him and now we are going out w/o our parents knowledge and its going fine and I love him to death it's like we were meant to be together. email me at neighwhinny93@yahoo.com if you want more tips on a secret bf lol good luck!!
2007-03-16 21:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably aren't allowed to date, but your parents can't really control if you have a boyfriend at school. Your parents probably think that you shouldn't get involved in a serious relationship while in school because it'll distract you from your studies and/or result in pregnancy. Bachelor #3 sounds like your best bet... the first two may cheat on you, based on the archetypes of player and jock.
2007-03-16 20:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow
u r really crewed up how can u like anthony? not the one in math right? anyways i think that if u really like jimmy enough to tell him that u really do like him and that its not a 'rummer' than he is y'r first guy then it would be mike then it would be anthony. sorry i cant tell u all about them but u should kno enough. call me later. mom and dad at seger concert. wont be bac till bout 11:00 or 12:00
lov ya lots
greek
2007-03-17 14:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by greek-a-leek 726 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...so i'm not even going to answer your question, but just address a point you made...
how can you not be "allowed" to have a boyfirend until after college?
unless you are one of those child geniuses (and since you like boys i'm guessing you are not)...you will be 18 before you start college, and will be an "official" adult.
but either way. if you like more that 1 guy, i'd say it's pointless to "go out" with any of them...you definitely aren't ready for a relationship.
2007-03-16 22:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with BBPerfume....about you being immature. Your in a dilemma, its not even like you like anyone, you just want to date and seem desperate..sorry if i sound harsh but ive been through the same dilemma with girls ...obviously..im not gay...anyway..back to my point...just lay back and enjoy high school cuz afterall all these are just crushes...not true love
2007-03-16 21:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
anthony. nice, better in the long run.
and once you get to college-- you can probably make your own decisions about dating...
Jimmy seems pretty cool too though.
2007-03-16 21:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like them equally, which means none of them is really important to you. Go get all three. You can always dump them afterwards anyway.
2007-03-16 22:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Haku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋