I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. But there are girls that are like 8, 9, 10, 11, and 12 that have already had boyfriends and been kissed. I feel like I am really stupid. Does anyone else feel this way or has felt this way?
2007-03-16 12:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you're jealous of an 8 year old for having a boyfriend... then that's stupid. however, you have no reason to feel bad about not having a boyfriend or never being kissed. you're still really young, and there's no reason that you should rush into something, just because you feel left out. stop worrying about it. enjoy being a kid. when you get older, you'll have a lot of time to deal with boyfriends and kissing. it's overrated anyway.
2007-03-16 13:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel stupid, 8, 10, 11, and12 year old girls should not be kissing and having boyfriends anyways. That why so many young girls are pregnant, it because they start to do things to early. It starts out with a kiss then it end up into other things.
2007-03-16 20:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not the norm to have a boyfriend to kiss with at 8,9,10 and 11 so that you should not feel stupid if at 14 this has not happened to you as yet. You are actually quite normal and at your age there are so many other things that you can be involved in such as sports and other hobbies. Boyfriends should come with maturity and at those tender ages you cannot be mature enough for these kinds of relationships. Enjoy your teen years darling.
2007-03-16 20:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by ann t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 and a boy, and i've never been kissed or had a girlfriend, I dont look for a gf , when the time comes it will, why go out with people if u know the relationship is gng to fail, thats what i say :)
2007-03-16 20:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♣Kermit the Frog♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started kissing at 13, first sex at 17. Some boyfriends wanted me to sleep with them when I was not ready, I gladly sent them on their way. I had sex with a steady B.F when I felt ready,. Evven if we have split yrs ago, I never regret anything I did with him, bcoz he was special and it felt right.
I was a teenage girl too, and heard friends at school talking about many things I'd never done. But I'm glad I had self-discipline earlier on. Sometimes, I felt so naive and clueless on things they were talkin about, and I that's why I decided not to do them. Many teenager do things by peer pressure, and get into trouble while their friends are safe from the situation. My advice, follow ur own instincts...
2007-03-16 20:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be in such a hurry. If you want to get kissed just for the sake of being able to say you are part of the "been kissed club" then you might find the experience somewhat disappointing.
Trust me, it's better when you're actually attracted to and care about the person.
I'm not saying you should wait, just be selective.
2007-03-16 20:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would that make you feel stupid? It's just that you are not ready to take that step yet! Having a boyfriend or being kissed is not a race to see who does it first! And it shouldn't be! Let it happen when YOU'RE ready! Not because other people think that THEY are ready!
2007-03-16 20:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG your only 14!!! that is soo young! if there are girls that have been kissed at age 10 11 or 12 then there is something wrong with those skanks!!
2007-03-16 19:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont rush! The rite guy will come along that will make u feel butterflys in your stomach. Respect your self till the rite moment and trust me man or boys are nothing but a pain on the butt.lol
2007-03-16 20:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mystical M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is 21 and she's never been kissed. I have a thirty year old normal handsome male friend who is still a virgin, and everyone would be shocked to know.
Dont be too eager to grow up. Things aren't always what they seem.
Wait for that exta-special someone, and you'll cherish that moment when it happens.
2007-03-16 20:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋