I am having a hard time finding a good guy or someone who cares about me. It seems they have good intention in the start but when they try to run over me or do something I dont like i stand up for myself and thats when they call me crazy is it me or is it them?
2007-03-16 12:52:20 · 13 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not you. you're going after the wrong kind of guys. what you need is someone with strong moral values and a good heart. chances are that your problems will vanish if you swith the kind of guys you date.
2007-03-16 12:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up it's them. If they do something or say something you don't like then it's your job to put them in there place other wise they will think it's OK & it's not. You don't need to be w/ someone like that. Unless you don't care about your self. Which I'm sure you do. Depending on how old you are trust you will have plenty of guys in your life. Not saying go out a be a slut but like they always say there are plenty of fish in the ocean & trust you will find the one that will treat you the way you need to be treated. Don't trip keep your head up girl.
2007-03-16 20:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get an intelligent answer from anyone here. We don't know your situation well enough and there's no way you can provide enough information in this setting. Just be yourself in any relationship. Someone who cares about you will be willing to help you work on anything that you may consider a fault.
2007-03-16 19:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by undrthecvrsagent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, boys will always say anything to get in ur pants!!! most people nowadays think with their d*ck/p*ssy and not with their head. U r a very smart girl who knows what she wants. im sure that u ll find some1 who respects u 4 who u r, and nwont go beyond that line where u set the limits. i tihnk that it is the smart thing to do, think with ur head, and not with ur p*ssy. im sure u ll find some1 who will cherish u and respect u. just be a lil more patient, and u will get what u looking for in a guy
:D
2007-03-16 20:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to start sticking up for yourself. You enter this world alone and you are going to leave this world alone. You have no one else but yourself. If you dont stick up for yourself no one else will. People will just run all over you and you will keep getting hurt.
2007-03-16 19:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by h.b.i.c. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's them! Just remember to be sensitive to the feelings of others. Be yourself and try to enjoy life on YOUR terms but never at the expense of someone Else's feelings!
2007-03-16 19:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like example? it depends in your satisfactory level and if you looking for a perfect man, doesn't really exist. Its all in our head and its up to us to make a perfect man. How about caring about him? it takes 2 to tango. i need more info. sometimes good guys is just arms away from you or just passed by you.
2007-03-16 19:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to stand up for yourself, but don't go getting all loud and overdoing it. you can prove a point without getting outragious.
2007-03-16 19:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it when its time to find a good guy it will just happen don't do anything you don't want to so to answer your question its them not you
2007-03-16 19:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by evelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is neither. You have not met your soul mate as yet but never fear he is out there. Relax and you will find him when you least expect to.
2007-03-16 19:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by ann t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋