I HATE MY LIFE !!
hate my life bcos my life, soul....everything related to me hurt me....it just treats as if i am its enemy....its painful to accept wat i m and wat i ll always be...a mere hoples person...it has never given me wat i deserve...infact it snatch every bit of happiness from me...and now m lost in the depths of pain....every second of my life is a bitter reality to accept tht i am still alive....
i see no way back....i thnk of getting something and as a consequence i lose everything.....i ve soo much poison filled in me against my life....i just wish....i dont know wat .. !!?!
I JUST HATE MY LIFE !!
2007-03-16 12:48:50 · 15 answers · asked by cmrn_singh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U need to find your FAITH. U need to pray and ask God to lead you in a path of righteousness. The Lord never puts more on you than you can bear at once. Pick up the Bible and Read. It always helps me
2007-03-16 12:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Shezsoofyne 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Everyone goes through bad patches in their lives, and it seems sadly you're having a pretty rough time of it at the moment. But there is something very important you need to remember:
Things WILL get better, though it may seem impossible at the moment, things will get easier for you. We all go through bad patches, but it will balance out in time. I'm not belittling in any way how you feel, I've felt like this before for a long time, but from experience it does get better believe me. It is 100% normal for people to feel like this sometimes, and everyone will go through painful stages, and everyone will get through it in time.
Also don't do nothing. Absolutely the worst thing you can do is to just sit and watch T.V or sit for hours on end at a computer hoping it will all go away. Find something you enjoy doing, and go do it, any hobby in the world as long as you enjoy it. Not only will it take your mind of things while you are doing it, but you will feel better for having been active and not just sitting around. Once you have plenty things you enjoy doing, you will feel have something to live for, and feel better about your life. You don't have to do everything at once, start small, but do something.
Exercise helps too, go for a bike ride, go swimming, or even just for a walk. Exercising produces endorphins in the brain, the natural chemical that makes us feel happy, when we have too low a level of endorphins we end up feeling depressed and at odds with the world, so go ahead and give yourself a top up.
Good Luck! and most of all remember, things WILL GET BETTER - just give it time.
Phil
2007-03-16 13:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I friend of mine once said, "Your fingerprints have been found all over the handle of your destiny."
You have got to get a "handle" on your life. IT is not some separate entity. IT is YOU! I don't normally suggest self help books, but there is a great one out right now that sounds just tailor made for you. It is called The Secret. Look it up. Read it. Try the exercises. You need to get over this lack of identity crisis you are suffering FAST!
2007-03-16 12:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt the same way in the past. It depends on the situation really. I found something that makes me happy and stuck to it. Find something that makes you happy, do things, watch things, be around things and people who inspire you. Hope is everywhere, you just have to open your eyes. Theres so many things out there for you. Some people are afraid of it and some people know depression so well that they need to feel it in order to feel anything.
2007-03-16 12:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Chaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm dont be so emo.. and u can always be whatever u wanna be, u just have to work hard for it, dont be so down on urself. since u didndt give any specific details about what happened to u, i guess that s all i can tell u.. just work hard for what u want, and believe in urself, dont let anyone tell u how to live ur life, and make u think u are destined to be the way u r, cuz u can always change if u dont like the way u r... u just need to work hard. only person stoping u from achieving what u want, is urself. so go on with ur life, and work hard to become who u wanna be.
2007-03-16 12:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through difficult times but there will come a day when u will get what u want out of life. Just focus on where u could be instead of where your life is now.
2007-03-16 12:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say u hate your life. Life is wonderful, give it time. You will find something and/ or someone that you love. Just stay positive and be paicient. Good things come to those who wait.
2007-03-16 12:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by sunshiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav had a reallly skrewed up life too, but ive tried to surround myself wit good friends.... but everyone leaves me, i dont hav a dad, im 3 to my mom after our pets and her bf, my best friend stole my bf, and said horrible thngs to me, and i ditched her for my other friend, who tonite kicked me out for her bf, i had to ride my bike home, and it is cold out here, and she didnt even care. i feel sad and alone all the time, and trust me, yur not alone, i kno how u feel, and theres not much u can do about it, like u said keep those happy moments and the few people who still care about u.
2007-03-16 12:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand....but you know this is life...you have to deal with it.you have to choose whats best for your life. and if u are going through bad time..al i can say that be patient ,only time solve many problem.
good luck
2007-03-16 12:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Annie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so am i, but hey, i think i still live better than people in africa who is fighting for a piece of food, being sick, cold and wet shelter etc... i don't know how they will survive, do you think they r happy?
2007-03-16 12:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋