Ladies: Do you feel that a good reason for dating a guy is to spite another young woman?

Question

I don't know. It seems as if I hear a lot of stories. But I've heard women talk about flirting or talking to a guy just to get back at another young woman. To me it sounds crazy, but ladies is that the best way to exact revenge? I guess hearing that made me ask myself how many women would actually do that, and also what could another woman do to you to make you talk to a man just to spite her. Just curious.

Answer 1

Yes it happens a lot but only by shallow women who share their men and can;t just find thereown man.It is pretty sad-Jealousy is very powerful and really most of the time it isn't even about the guy it's girls being nasty to other girls because this is how most girls are.In my opinion no guy is worth fighting over with another woman because really who is worth all this extra crap??

Answer 2

There is one word to describe women who do this: DUMB.

Any woman with half a brain knows better, both because that kind of revenge is utterly childish, and because that requires using a man who you don't really want, which is inexcusable. If you see a woman doing this, avoid her. She's bad news.

Answer 3

How childish!! I guess those women who have nothing better to do, do that kinda thing. Although that kinda behavior is mostly displayed by the younger, immature females. Grown-azz women don't play those kinds of games. We know that talk is cheap so let Miss Thang talk her heart out, that ish don't fly 'round here.

Answer 4

I personally would not feel comfortable with myself if I used a human being this way. I think it may backfire on them. I revenge is irresistible then at least do not involve an innocent person.

Answer 5

i wouldn`t never date a man for that reason because i feel like i dont need a man to spite another woman cause i could just stand there and look great.

Answer 6

I would never do anything like that. I've known some immature females that play minds games like that while using and maybe even hurting,another person

Answer 7

Yes, I've done it before...because to an outsider it could just look like I have an interest in this guy even though it is just to annoy another female.

Answer 8

maybe an immature female would. but a LADY wouldn't do that. She would be confident in herself, that she did not need to stoop to that level. Hope this helped.

Answer 9

it depends what quarrel that may have had at one time. or what one said about the other person. they sometimes feel they have to prove a point that they can have any man they want or there man.

Answer 10

i wouldnt do that because sure it would make the girl mad but it would hurt the guy if he thought you liked him and he got hooked on you that would just be mean