A few weeks ago, probably about 7 to be exact, I and a friend of mine went on a trip to Louisiana, and one night when we were in a bar, I met this certain celebrity ( I actually took the trip down there to see if I could meet him because they were filming a movie down there",
We danced and I was more than a little drunk and so was he. He took me back to a house he was staying in down there and I'm sure we ended up having sex though I can't remember it very well. Anyway, the next morning, when I woke up, he had a cab waiting for me outside to take me back to the place where I was staying & a note. I just discovered this past week that I am pregnant and I don't know what to do because I know I'll never see him again & he's probably forgotten about me. I have just turned 21 and am in a serious relationship, however I know it's not my boyfriend's baby because we had split up for a bit just before this happened. What should I do?
2007-03-16 12:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"ABORTION" the one and only option 4 u now.
2007-03-16 12:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by n_joy555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know it wasn't your bfs baby. How many weeks pregnant are you? If its 7 then it might not be.
You have 3 choices. Have the child and let your bf know that it may not be his. You had a fling and it resulted in impregnation. You didn't cheat on him so he shouldn't be mad.
Secondly, have the child and give it up for adoption. You'll still have to tell your bf that it might not be his baby and explain the situation.
Thirdly and people are going to yell at me about this. Abort, and never tell anyone. Its a hard hard decision to make and it often results in guilt and depression.
2007-03-16 19:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't think I'm coming off rude because I'm not, please.
If you were going down there to chase after the guy, you can't expect us to believe you didn't intend to lay him...
So don't act innocent like you didn't think THAT was gonna happen. One of you should have been prepared, & drinking is a big no no in
a one night stand because it causes unexpected crap like this to happen. Like every1 else has already said, you have 3 options,
1. Tell your b/f that it is his and the two of you decide together.
2. Tell him the truth, have the baby, keep it or give it up.
AND 3. (AND MY PERSONAL FAV.) Abort it, and pretend nothing ever happened.
2007-03-16 19:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Yams 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse Your taking advantage of the guy as putting any obligation on him. Either you have the baby, keep it or give it up for adoption or get an abortion. I personally feel You should never mention who the father is unless there is a medical problem and just go on with your life.
2007-03-16 19:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend, you have got yourself in a pickle. i see it as no other way than to fess up to your current boyfriend and pray he loves you enough to help you out of this situtation, you need to decide if you want the baby first, no matter who the baby's daddy is, cuz you may end up being mommy and daddy in the end. if you are not going to have the child, i only pray you give it up for adoption and not abortion. if you decide to keep the baby then that's one less decision on your mind , now lay it out to him and tell him the truth cuz you getting anything from the celebrity,(well we all know how that is ) is next to nil. so if he excepts what has happened then the 3 of you move on from there and make a family ... life is to short and to full of hardships, not to grab what little bit of happiness is granted to us. GOD BLESS and good luck , i'll keep you in my prayers.p.s. stay away from the booze and bars, there's never anything good comes from them.
2007-03-16 19:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by hummybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your options are: have a termination, keep the baby, have the baby fostered/adopted. If you keep the baby it would be immoral to allow your boyfriend to think he is the Father. Whatever you decide you'll need support because none of your options are easy. Good luck.
2007-03-16 19:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got just what you wanted, 17% of his post tax income. Congrats, you will be receiving a big fat check for getting knocked up. Perfect reason to bring a baby into the world.
2007-03-16 19:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They can do paternity tests in utero. Get one of those the first chance you get, and inform whoever the real father is. It might be harder to get a hold of the one night stand, but if it's him you have to tell him.
2007-03-16 19:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his number from information and tell him about it. or, if your boyfriend and you are serious, just don't tell either of them and raise the kid like he's yours and his.
2007-03-16 19:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who is the actor? I won't give you advice if you don't tell me!
2007-03-16 19:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋