okay,..so ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and everythings been okay
i know i love him and he loves me. however, the drawback to our realationship is our spirituality and values. when i get upset and ask him if hes christian he assures me he is, but then he contradicts himself by drinking, smokeing, and doing drugs, getting high, and other things that a chrsitain would most definitely not do. also when he is around his friends he makes fun of my religion and says different things wehn were in groups or wen were alone
i am very strong in my beliefs, and all i really want is for him to be too. i really do love him and i want the best for him ,but lately i have been thinking that maybe i shouldnt be with him.
but i really cant bring myself to let go. i dont know what to do.
sometimes i feel pressuerd to compromise my beliefs and im very confused. for example, sometimes i feel hes ready to do more "Stuff" that i am not ready to do. (you know)
2007-03-16 12:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and foremost, if he loves you he will respect you, (values and belief included though not saying he has to believe them but respect them none the less). Do not let him pressure you or compromise you beliefs. Not to make any judgments if he drinks, smoke and does drugs, in addition too not respecting you and is trying to pressure you, his intentions are probably not honest and you probably should dump him. Be proud of who you are and find a boyfriend who loves you respects you and treats you right.
If it make you feel any better, i have had similar problems. I'm at 18 I'm guy, i am a Columbia U student, a Catholic and a virgin by choice (for religious and philosophical reasons). Anyway, be proud of who you are don't compromise your beliefs, chances are he is just trying to take advantage of you and he is trying to use your emotions to do it. Best of luck, stay the way you are and God loves you.
2007-03-16 12:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by holdencaufield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so darn loaded. Lets beat the dog later and talk about what really on your mind, given up the booty. If your young lady under 18 then never compromise your self for anyone at this time in your life. Another thing it takes years to know someone. Sex is natural without it life ends but your boyfriend is a lie! Anytime a person does drugs make fun of their mate in company of other people is a lie! God or your God gave that thang between your legs to you it belongs to nobody but you. You love him, WHY?
You gave no reason to love this person, none. whats to love? He's shoes, the way he walk, how he smiles at you, make you feel inside-what?
Love your self that you are strong enough to walk away if he doesn't change he's ways. Then after he knows you mean business drag him to church by the ears and get some lord in him.
2007-03-16 12:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by animatelifeforce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 02:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So just tell him that Christianity is a lifestyle and he is not exemplifying his life in Christ, and that it is time to review what he considers a christian relationship.
2007-03-16 12:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM SOON
hes not wat u think he is
if hes on drugs hes totally crazy
DUMP HIM QUICK B4 SOMETHING HAPPENS TO U
dont do thing u dotn want to
2007-03-16 12:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet n' Sour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋