Ay yo, I think that I am too much in love with others. First of all, I would like to say that I am 17, I'm on varsity basketball at school, and I have never been kissed or kissed a girl before. I also have never been hugged, held hands with a girl, and I have never known a girl. But the thing wrong with my emotions is that I am in love with not just one girl as a crush, but over at least 150 different girls. I can't stop thinking of these fine ladies. Half of the time I can't concentrate in school. I know that I have never known a girl, and that I have to get to know some or even go out with one soon. But I don't know which of these 150 or more girls to get to know and go out with. What is wrong with me? I am in love too much. I have a crush on over 100 different girls and I have never even known one. Is there something wrong with me liking too many different girls?
2007-03-16 12:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by mistafabboi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha no, nothing is wrong with you. Why don't you just pick one at random and get to know her?
2007-03-16 12:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey your just a young guy who's confused with his feelings. ANd yea you could have crushes on all the women in the world and it's natural. Your start to get the feelings that a young man will start getting and then pretty soon the excercising your hand comes along soon. But don't get all emotion it's all natural and is part of a young man growing out of pubrerty.
2007-03-16 19:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you're talking about - i've never kissed or been in a relationship with a guy - so i like A LOT of guys - i find something amazing in every one of them. I think i like so many cuz i wanna keep my options open - which may be the same for you. I don't know what i'm looking for, so i just like ANY and EVERY guy that looks good and has a good personality.
maybe you're obsessed with love because you haven't found it ... i know thats my case
try talking to all those girls to see which is the best for you - just a friendly conversation about their interests so you can narrow it down - then become better friends and take it from there - don't worry about it because i'm sure theres one in there perfect for you
2007-03-16 19:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 or more is a little too much. But, at the age of 17, liking some girls should be fine.
2007-03-16 19:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm im thinking that as a teenage boy its only natural for you to be hormonal and thinking a lot about girls. however, your never going to have a successful relationship if you only concentrate on the physical. you have to think about what these "fine ladies" will bring to a realationship, and if you are compatible with one another. i mean out of these 150 girls, which would you most want to have a conversation with that wouldnt involve any sort of physicalness? you have to find someone who you can talk to about everything, you must first be friends with girls before you can have a realtionship.
and remeber....you only get your first kiss once. it should be special and with someone who you really care about beacsue a kiss doesnt mean anything unless its with someone you love
so my advice is to try to focus on more than the physical, and do your best to control your emotions, and start getting to know us girls for who we are inside. also, girls want to be your "one and only" so you can only have one of us. (not 150)
good luck =]
2007-03-16 19:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love you are in lust or they just wanna be friends........ and besides you are to young to be in love grow up some and have some fun while you can cause it dont last forever things change when you find that right one and even get married...... learn the word love before using it because it could really heart someone else.........ENJOY LIFE FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 19:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by CAT EYEZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Get going now.
2007-03-16 19:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so
i crush on many guys but i get over it
u will too when u find the perfect girl
i havent but i just get over it
2007-03-16 19:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet n' Sour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Limit it down to a few and put yourself out there. Let them know your avilable and most of all, make conversation!
Good Luck!
2007-03-16 19:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be somthing wrong with u if u dont start dating holding hands or whatever
2007-03-16 19:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by to_good4u28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋