ok, theres this guy ive liked for about 2 yrs, and it really seems like hes liked me back about tht long too. we became about best friends last yr and weve been good ever since. hes realllly easy to talk to, and hes funny, and hes not a popular jock.... by far! but i like him so much, and he acts like he likes me, but hes too shy to ask me out. i would definitely ask him out... but hes the best guy friend ive ever had, and i would NOT wanna lose him! i go to his house after school sometimes and on the weekends, and we sit outside togehter and talk or ride bikes, and we get mannnny detentions together from talkin, but he wont ask me out! ive hinted him so mmuch im outa things to say! how can i get him to ask me out! im wayyy to shy and afraid of rejection from him. his friends are real jerks, and they always influence him too, so how can i sneakily get him to ask me out!?
2007-03-16 12:03:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, you have to do it. ask him. say " hey 300 is playing this weekend, let's go and see it". it's a friendly date and it's a start. you could be waiting for him for ever or even worse, someone else would ask him before you. so, you need to break this ice first baby girl.
2007-03-16 12:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your situation is so much like what my girl friend at the time and I went through. We were really good friends for about 2 years went out a couple of times but I was too shy to make a move. Finally once, she took me out to a hockey game then to bar , we danced a little, a few drinks latter she finally made a move. She kissed me, and I'm so glad she did! Best thing that could have happen to me. Now we are happily engaged and looking at getting married next summer. So I guess my advice is for you to just go for it or you might spend the rest of your life wondering "what if"
2007-03-16 19:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a hard one um....try having 1 of your friends to ask him out 4 u or if not then just get the courage to ask him out and tell him that that question doesnt want to ruin your friendship k-
2007-03-16 19:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by .:*MusicIsMyLife*:. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want him to be your boyfriend, he doesnt have to ask you out. next time you see him, try and kiss him or somthing. look into his eyes, lean in and try and kiss him. doesnt matter if he kisses you or not, he'l know you like him. orrrr you could lead off a rumor that you like him, he will probably hear that, and he'll get more confidence to ask you out. good luck!!
2007-03-17 19:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try this get date with another guy , you will be able to tell once and for all where he stands . good luck.
2007-03-16 19:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by nuteddyboy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can ask your friends to tell him to ask you out.
2007-03-16 19:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋