My boyfriend told me today that yesterday someone told him that a couple weeks ago i cheated on him. I would never do something like that i love him way too much. now he doesnt believe me because i never believed him when i heard he was cheating. but i never believed him because he did cheat on me. i dont want to lose him and its hurting me really bad that he thinks im cheating on him. he had me in tears on the phone because he just wont believe me. how can i make him stop thinking that i would do that......i dont know what to do. please help me
2007-03-16 12:03:03 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hopefully you are telling the truth that you didn't cheat on him, because lying to him will do no good. If you are, then you personally have nothing to worry about. Have a serious conversation with him and try to work past this.
2007-03-19 14:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accusing anyone of cheating without direct proof is risky business.
Some accuse to deflect an accusation of infertility by accusing the non-cheating partner...thus, do you think he may be cheating again and trying to make you feel bad...directing the cheating at you?
Here is my example - I had a boyfriend who accused me of cheating because he went to a WELL KNOWN make out point in a dark area of town where it's well known that people make-out and have sex at this location. He was with two girls who knew me from school, but where no friends. He told me that the girls (HE WAS GETTING IT ON WITH) told him that I was cheating!
I was so confused by his accusations, that I didn't even think to check him on what he was doing...thus by the time I had realized what was going on, it was too late to freak out!
This is what came to my mind when I read your post - but truly hope it just a buncha nothing and the two of you can move past this!
2007-03-16 19:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Leebert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be able to trust you if he loves you. If you've done nothing wrong then you have nothing to prove. Don't belittle yourself by allowing his insecurities to manipulate your emotions.
He feels like he can't trust you because he, himself, is untrustworthy. He is immature and controlling and you are better off without him -- trust me, I've wasted too many years of my life on insecure men.
2007-03-16 19:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by HearKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OnLy LoRd KnOwS
2007-03-16 19:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by C@D3$H!@ L0V3$ H3R$3LF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lying, you cheated!
2007-03-16 19:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
kill him
2007-03-16 19:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋