my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.i feel like the fall back to guy.she say im in her heart for marriage.
2007-03-16 11:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she tells me im in her heart for marriage.we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising then when the weekend rolls around she disappears...she treats me like,if the relationship shes in now doesn't work i will take you back
2007-03-16 11:40:36 · update #1
i have told her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that?/??
2007-03-16 11:42:49 · update #2
Tell her to just put herself first and do what she feels. It is impossible to make everybody happy in this world. And even if she doesnt end up with you, deal with it and know the girl of your dreams probably wouldnt ever put you into this type of situation anyways!
2007-03-16 11:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better if she ended it as soon as possible. The longer she waits its more likely that his feelings would be hurt more. She should just put him down nicely by saying something like "its just not working out".
2007-03-16 11:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to dump him you can't always not hurt some one and if she waits till he screws up again he wont know the real reason she doesn't want to be with him anymore and he will just want to get back together with her, some one always gets hurt in the process if so it should be the truth every one deserves the truth its not fair and if u feel like u r always the one that she falls back on mabey you shouldn't get back together
2007-03-16 11:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by door knob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your ex is emotionally mature, she just got into a relationship to escape the pain and she is now going to hurt an innocent person. Well, I would say go to:
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/what-is-a-rebound-relationship.html
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/ending-a-relationship.html
2007-03-16 11:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there isn.t a special why to tell some one they don,t love them any one the truth is the best way.she need to write a letter or tell him from a song.
2007-03-16 11:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry...i have the same problem too.
but tell her to do what she did to you-so she will feel comfortable with knowing whats shes doing.
2007-03-16 11:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
best way is to have both you and her talk to the guy about it
if he cares for her he will let her
because it is what would be best for her at that time
2007-03-16 11:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by David Y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say it
2007-03-16 11:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by CiCi Cuttie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋