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Question

If a girl dumps a guy and she finds out that he commited suicide ..leaving on last love note to her ...how do you think she would feel? Would she go to the funeral?
Was he wrong to put so much love for her that he was willing to kill himself if she was not in his life?
Girls only please....and thanks for the answered questions:)

Answer 1

First of all, he should not do that! If this is the same friend from previous question, please reason with him. As for your questions, If I broke up with my boyfriend and he did that, I would feel absolutely horrible. I would know in my head that it wasn't really my fault, that his love for me shouldn't have been greater than his love for life, especially since I wouldn't break up with my boyfriend without a good reason. Even if it was a bad reason for breaking up, it's still not the girl's fault, because the guy shouldn't have made the girl the entirety of his life- there should be something else there worth living for, not just her. Even so, I would still feel guilty, even knowing all that. And I would go to the funeral, because I would still care about him. I would be mad at him too, I've just realized. I would be really mad at him for being so stupid as to kill himself over me. No person is worth that, no matter how much he loves them. I think I answered that whole question. Please don't do this or let your friend do this, if this isn't hypothetical.

Answer 2

If you are talking about yourself, whatever you do dont commit suicide. I believe when people want to do something like that it is because they want to hurt another person as much as the other person hurt them. If I was in that situation I would feel responsible for the death, and is that something you want someone to live with for the rest of their life? If you really loved her then let her go. When you let go a relationship that was really worth having it always finds a way to sneak itself back into your life. Good Luck!

Answer 3

well... i kinda wonder why you're asking this question, but anyways...

if i was the girl in that situation, i would feel really bad, but i think anyone would. eventually i would come to terms that it wasnt my fault. what did i expect myself to do? stay with him, even though i dont love him, just to keep him from killing himself?
you cant blame him either, you really cant control how you feel. i mean, he shoulda got some help, because there deffinently was a different outlet for him that suicide.

oh and... i think i'd go to the funeral, if i wasnt too overcome with grief.
if i could force myself to,i would

Answer 4

First of all, don't kill yourself.

She'd probably feel pretty low unless, of course, she lacks that emotional capability.
She might go unless the boy's parents would be there and she was disliked by them, or she was a selfish *****.
And his action would most definitely be pathetic.
Possibly one of the most pathetic courses to take, if not the top.

He should move on and not kill himself over some girl who dumped him.

Answer 5

Anyone willing to give up their life because someone doesnt want to be with them are weak. No one wants to be with a weak person. I would go to the funeral but I wouldnt feel responsible for his death.

Answer 6

She would feel terrible and yes go to the funeral...A few years later, she'll tell her friends about that awfully obssessive guy who killed himself because he wanted her to feel guilty.

Answer 7

the girl would probably do the same thing because she's going to feel guilty. Because of her, she caused a guy 2 loose his life

Answer 8

I think she would feel awful and yes she would go the the funeral.

Answer 9

it means HE was a weak individual and she is much better off without him either way!

Answer 10

if she really love him she would stay with him no matter what he did thats just real love