All I see is girls (asians perferbably) that go after guys who are taken and never go for single guys why is that?
I perfer to hear this from girls rather then guys...
2007-03-16 11:29:30 · 23 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because girls want what they can't have, when I got myself a g/f all of a sudden girls were friendlier, flirtier, and wanted to hang out. THe reason is because they wanna know what you have that attracted your girlfriend, plus they think you're safer to talk to cause you're not out to get into their pants (as wrong as they might be)
2007-03-16 11:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by exqueezme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am an indian girl, and I can see why some people can think that I go after guys that are taken.
Well, I like to make guy friends and I am usually afraid to approach single guys, because they would think I am hitting on them. So I almost always end up approaching taken guys. We become friends and what not, and I eventually start getting attached to them, and then I back off, because I dont want to be the homewrecker. Now these taken guys might wonder "why didnt she come around when I was single". Well, I was too afraid to, because guys start jumping to conclusions!
There was a guy in my college I really liked, but I was too afraid to approach him, plus it didnt seem like we could get along. Anyway, once he started dating someone, I tried being friends with him, because I really liked him, and now since he is dating someone, i thought he wouldnt want a relationship. but he just turned his back on me and made me look like an idiot. so yeah, it's not so much i like challenges or anything. in fact, i find them quite scary and pointless... but there are other reasons...
oh well ..
2007-03-16 11:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feeling to the Russian woman is an infatuation. you do no longer probable comprehend her and in case you have been living along with her or relationship her you are able to replace your concepts with regard to the way you sense. in basic terms attempt to take it elementary. think of in case you have been to choose considered one of the two to be on your existence which one might you choose. That mentioned do no longer harm up which comprise your gf. because of the fact the Russian woman won't have an interest in any respect in you. Sleep on it, if after a pair months you nevertheless sense the comparable then you definately in all probability do no longer love your gf or you does not fall so undesirable for yet another. i do no longer comprehend how old you're, yet age performs a great function into those emotions. each and every so often in our early Nineteen Twenties we get infatuated surely by persons. As we improve up we look much less effected by such issues better of high quality fortune
2016-10-02 06:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by zaheer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In case girls won't tell you it is because of the challenge to see if they can be more desirable and take the guy from some other girl.
Another reason is that they think if nobody else has hooked up with this guy they don't want him either.
2007-03-16 11:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there's a better chance of getting in on some three-way action.
Actually, I don't know.
I don't want guys that are taken.
I want 'em fresh, good, and fairly undiscovered.
Why go through all that trash when you could just skip to the best?
2007-03-16 11:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by megahot megababe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who have girlfriends don't give off a 'desperate' vibe the way single guys do. They have a 'don't need it, already have it' thing that girls like.
It's hard to fake that, but you can do it. It's called being cool.
2007-03-16 11:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Justine S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know guys who do the same thing. They go for girls who are already taken, so its not just us girls.
2007-03-16 11:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fun is in the chase, have you not heard that most want what they can not have? Sooooooooooooo they pursue with a vengeance, however the commitment is too someone else
not them, and thats the game many play because they are free to do so.
2007-03-16 11:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, thats not always true, but sometimes girls have random hormonal highs that tend to fall on guys who might already be taken. also, this isn't just true of girls...guys do it to taken girls all the time too. =)
2007-03-16 11:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls consider it a challenge to "get" a guy who's already "taken"...some don't want any kind of expectations from anyone..just a thought.
2007-03-16 11:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋