Me and my beau have been dating for about 3 months. Because of a bad situation on my part, I live with him. When we first got together he really opened up and let me know he had a huge porn collection. It didn't bother me then, because my thoughts were guys will be guys. That and the fact he told me he only had sex 4 times before I came along.
Well here we are a few months later. We barely have sex, I have to do all the work when it does happen, and I'm getting a little frustrated. On top of that, every time I open something that can play a DVD there's a porn in it! And he's not bashful about the situation... I came home the other night and fell asleep on the couch because he had the bedroom occupied. I knew what he was doing because I heard it! So the next day I decided to have a little talk with him.. He admitted he had a problem and would try to work on it. But we haven't had sex since that talk and I've found a few new porns since then too! What do I do? He says it not me.
2007-03-16 11:27:53 · 1 answers · asked by mixdmagic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is not you. he has a problem.it will not get better. you need to get out before you get sucked farther into his life. this is an addiction, and addictions do not go away. if you are unhappy after 3 month i can promise you that 3 years will feel like hell.
2007-03-17 07:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋