Should I CALL HER BACK and talk as friends? PLEASE HELP!?

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PPL PLZ POST UR OPINION. i need ans

This girl works with me, gave me her #. We talk on the phone. 2nd time I call her(next day she gets UNFRIENDLY* at work, starts ignoring me/no eye contact) So I do the SAME* for 2 days. ("hard to get" attitute)

The 3rd day, she smiles comes to me and tries to start conversation. (being EXTERA friendly* again)

So I call her today, to ask her for coffee. and she asks "when/where?"
Then she asks about my work schedule, and says "we'll go out when we both have off or when there's something special going on." I said "I don't know about anything, but we can go to movie, or coffee for little bit. whenever u can, I don't want to pressure u into anything." so she says,"I’m doing this project with my mom and sister. I’m kind of busy now"
so I said “well u have my number, let me know.” she said "OK"

I'M CONFUSED
WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW?
IS SHE INTRESTED OR PLAYING ME?

I WAS THINKING MAYBE I SHOULD CALL HER TONIGHT ND JUST TALK TO HER AS FRIENDS?

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GIRLS PLEASE POST YOUR ANS.

SHOULD I CALL HER TONIGHT? IGNOR HER ATWORK, LET HER COME TO ME?

THANKX FOR YOU ANS. IN ADVANCE*****

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Answer 1

nice essay.. 2 points .. and you can make it 12 if you pick me best answer LOL

Answer 2

She Probably ignored you because she probably likes you alot and and you shouldnt of said "i dont know about anything or what ever you said" she probably felt pushed away you should ask her if she wants to have coffee again and try to just first become GOOD friends then maybe start to date just go with the flow and when a girl is in a relationship she porbably will be very sensitive to anything so be careful about what you say and yes call her but just act normal





Hope i helped!

Answer 3

“well u have my number, let me know.” she said "OK"
Leave it at that. If she wants to have coffee with you she will call. Don't ignore her at the work place. Make small talk with her when you both have the chance. Also she seems a little stressed out. Come up with small ways to make her laugh. My final advice is not to ignore her but don't smother her. Find your balance some where in the middle.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Screw her!! Just like every girl we like the attention. So since she sees you ignoring her she gets all "what the HELL??, He's suppose to be into me" attitude. Even if we don't like guys we still need the attention. TRUST ME! We're alllll like that, NO MATTER how much of a saint you are, or if you think she can't be like that, she's too nice.. There's this guy I met in Rosarito Mexico and he calls me or texts me every week!! EVERY WEEK!!! (I kissed the guy, thats all and he's hooked?? Wierd, that's besides the point) I haven't text him back or talked to him since early Feb., but it feels nice to have someone thinking about you. I say it's her loss!

Answer 6

I wouldn't call any more. Be polite at work but don't treat her different than anyone else. If she is interested, she will give you a call. Could be she has something else going on in her life. Maybe that explains the mixed signals.

Answer 7

well if u really like her then u should call her and ask her out again but if u just want to be friends then just be friends but maybe she is 2 shy so just give her some space but dont be rude 2 her then she will think that u hate her

Answer 8

Call her and ask her if she wants to go out. If she says no dont call her for to days and dont completly ignore her give her a small smile at different hours of the day, act as if you just met her......or shes new at work..........

Answer 9

Give here space your like smothering her let her be for a little. She might have been interested but now that your in her face she thinks your clingy. Girls don't like clingy but they don't want stand off either. So give her time you told her to call you if she was interested unlike boys girls listen and if she is interested she'll call you back. Do NOT under ANY circumstances call her back that's stalker, clingy weird.

Answer 10

Sounds like she's being immature. I wouldnt chase after her if i were you. Even if you just call to talk as friends she will think you are persuing (SP) her. Be normal around her at work and let her figure out what she wants

Answer 11

Let it go man, she'll call you. Play it indifferent but don't ignore her, be friendly but let it be known that it doesn't bother you. As a matter of fact, I would tell her that your going out with the guys this weekend, then come back and tell her how fun it was.