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There was a girl I liked, and she seemed to like me but I guess not. She is dating someone right now. I moved on but now there is another girl I like and the thing is she worked at a restaurant that I always went to and we used to talk a little. I moved away and came back a year later and she still remembers me. She used to smile when we talked. How am I supposed to know if she likes me. How can I increase my confidence? Any girl I see I automatically think she's out of my league. Why is it that the girls I consider ugly are attracted to me. Any girl I see that I like, I always think she's the filet mignon and I'm the belly lint and that I am that much out of her league no matter how pretty she is.

2007-03-16 11:18:33 · 4 answers · asked by kirr45 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

That's what I thought that if she remembered me that she might like me a little but not that she was thinking about me during that time.

2007-03-16 11:30:26 · update #1

what are some hints i should look for?

2007-03-16 12:12:22 · update #2

4 answers

Mmmk....first of all NEVER put your self down! It's bad for your self esteem. The girl that your meant to be with will love you just the way you are, looks and all.
Ok, that first girl, she actually might have liked you, but you didn't make a move so she thought you didn't like her, so she gave up and found a new guy...I could be wrong, don't quote me on that.
If the second girl likes you as you said, she'll smile when you talk but that's not the only thing to look for. She'll mostly do things that allow physical contact between you. She'll also try to spend more time with you than the other costomers. Also be aware of the subtle hints she might give. Those hints differ for every girl so I have no idea what she'll do. It seems that guys always seem to miss those hints.
By the way, don't be afraid to make the first move. Ask her out to coffee or out to lunch. Something casual. The worst she can say is no. And if she says no, you can still be friends.
Hope I helped!
-Becca

2007-03-16 11:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 2 · 0 0

Take it from a girl
She probably is just playing wit ya heart
Girl's tend to G guys head up because they do it to them.
She doesn't necessarily like you so dont get too happy about that. Trust me the same thing happens to us, the guys we think are ugly are attracted to us and the guys that we think are cute do not show us the time of day. Just wait to find someone u like and likes u back and the solution to this is just time.

2007-03-16 18:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 0 0

Because any girl you like, you'll be drawn to them, thinking they're amazing. Thus outta your league. This is normal. Just try to ignore that and try to make small talk, building a relationship, eventually gaining confidence.

I hope this works for you.

2007-03-16 18:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by mvpmonkey6 2 · 0 0

Well obviously if she remembered you from a year later she was thinking about you. So just start small talk for right now then it will gradually lead to more.GOOD LUCK :}

2007-03-16 18:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0 0

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