I am going out with this guy and all he wants to do is have sex! It's awful! What should I do?
2007-03-16 11:16:47 · 19 answers · asked by lily w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I deeply, deeply, deeply apologize for the way your man has been treating you. I honestly apologize for his doggish ***. Leave him and find a real man. AMEN!!!!
P.S.
Please stop calling ALL MEN dogs PLEASE!!!!!! I've earned my title as a gentlemen.
Thank you
2007-03-16 11:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by jrmygray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, who is the real jerk here? This guy is only responding honestly as to his desires. Yet your statement condemns him and suggests you have gone out with him more than once. If he is (according to you), a jerk and awful, then why in the hell are you still going out with him? Somewhere in a really big book, I once read that women can be jerks, too!
2007-03-16 11:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rocket Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I know exactly what to do , right your going to break up with him but have a little fun first
ok so what ya do is invite him over
get him all steamed up and be all flirty
and then as you 2 are getting down and dirty, tell him 2 close his eyes . Then take off his pants and if he is hard pour ice cold water on him down below and then tell him never to f*ck with you again !! Then kick him out of your house and laugh !
2007-03-16 11:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't have much respect for you. If you want this to work, you're going to have to tell him how you feel and try other avenues of fun - going to a movie, the park, etc. Personally, if he can't respect you enough to (stop, slow down, etc) - then you deserve better!!
2007-03-20 07:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a lock on the door! OUT OF ORDER UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE> Tell him you want a relationship that is based on more than the bedroom. You don't need that kind of man.
2007-03-16 11:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is merely using you as a sex partner- nothing more. He probably just finds you attractive or easy to get to. You should break up with him and find someone who cares more about your personality.
2007-03-16 11:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch to women. The sex thing isn't going to change with a different guy.
2007-03-16 11:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If all he wants to do is have sex and you keep complying, obviously he just thinks you are a booty call. If you keep objecting and that's all he is interested in, drop him like a bomb and find someone else.
2007-03-16 11:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by dancergalny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i have a problem like this too, theres this guy, and i hate his gutts. he went out with one of my close friends, tricked her into having sex, like he pressured her into it. then when she thought she was pregnant he left her. he later then spread rumors about her and made fun of her for being a whore, she nearly killed herself except for i and a couple of friends stopped her, luckily she wasnt pregnant. but now hes going out with my ex, and shes falling for the same tricks she did, and she wont listen to me. he told her that his ex was crazy and over dramatic so she thinks its the truth.
take this advice, there are two types of guys you could date, guys who sleep with you cuz they love you and guys who love you cuz t hey sleep with you. if you say no to him and he wont stick around, then hes not worth it and he doesnt really love you. if he has raped you, call the police.
tell him that you dont want to have sex and you dont think thats going to change, if he wants to leave and be with someone else who will, then fine, say you wont change so other people will like you.
2007-03-16 11:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by dandaman3523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is the same way.if u dont like it tell him u feel uncomfrotable when he talks 2 u like that.if he still does it that means he doent care bout ur feelins.if that happens then u need 2 break up with him.
2007-03-16 11:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, he doesn't love you! He just wants to get down your pants! Get out of it, and find a guy who will respect you!
2007-03-16 11:20:45 · answer #11 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋