does God hate me?

Question

does God hate me? i swear ive been trying accomplish things in my life, and when i ask him for help it dosent matter, the situation is still hard, and when i try to rush into the problem head 1st it seems like i cant do it no matter how much i try and force myself its like im stuck. ive been trying everything in my power to find a relationship with a female, and then i pray and pray and nonething happens, i try and try to live a normal life i pray and pray and then the next day i try to keep a smile on my face but it wont stay. im tired of feeling down all the time, and when i pray to be happy and or go try to make my self happy, the situation gets worse, i mean i have frineds, but they all are doing their own thing so they have little time for me/ im starting to think either God hates me, or he made me by mistake and sometimes what can make me feel good for a minute is this statement "god chooses those strong in heart to withstand lonlyness" is he testing me, is that why i cant smile?

Answer 1

No, no and no.

Answer 2

No God doesn't hate you, He sent his only son to die for you! And when he doesn't give you the things you ask for sometimes, it's because he knows you don't need that right now. Maybe God understands that you'd be happier single. He knows when to do everything, and maybe He's just saying "not now, wait a little bit". Maybe the girl he's got for you isn't mature enough to handle a relationship. Or it could be you. Think about this; God took a special week where he created a LOT of stuff. God is creative. So since we want to try and be as much like Him as possible, how about you try being creative? Try something new every day, invent something. And look at other people, see how you can help them. And most important, get to know God better, be friends with him. Read his word everyday, pray to him and thank him for what he's given you. And listen to what he has to tell you.

Answer 3

Absolutely not, it sounds like you are praying one night and expecting a miracle by morning. It doesn't work that way. When the time is right you will meet someone. It sounds like you are swimming against the tide. You have to go with the flow. Evaluate your life, look at what you are doing right and what you would like to change. List your different options and then weigh the pros and cons. And above all stay optimistic, when you worry it means that you don't trust in God. Know that God loves you, SMILE, and keep the faith.

Answer 4

First of all, God does not hate you. He loved you enough to let His Son die for you. If you are a Christian (a person who has realized that you were lost and asked Jesus to come into your heart and life and take away your sin and help you live for Him) then I need to remind you that God does always hear and answer a Christian's prayer. However, the answer may not always be yes. You have to trust the One who knows you better than you know yourself and knows what is best for you. God may say yes, but the time is not now and you'll have to wait. Waiting on the Lord is hard because we want what we want now. If you try to take matters in your own hands and work things out in your own power I can assure you that it will not turn out as good as it would if you waited on the Lord and His timing. Many times we settle for 2nd best when God wants us to have the best. Sometimes we settle for what isn't even good for us only to live to regret our decision later wishing that we'd waited on God's answer in His time. My advice to you is to get into a good Bible Study with people who you can be open to and have good discussions with. Happiness comes from within and even though you are lonely without a female relationship, always keep in mind that God does want you to be happy. You are definitely not a mistake because God does not make mistakes. He has a plan for you so don't give up. Keep praying and asking God for His will and not your own. God works things out in miraculous ways. If you are not a Christian, then understand that the only prayer that God answers from a non-Christian is the sinner's prayer that I touched on earlier in this message. I want you to be happy, too so hang in there, get in God's word, fellowship with other Christians and ask God for His will.

Answer 5

Not to be rude, but have you ever tired to pray for God's Will to be done in your life.

It sounds like you are not really 'praying', but are rather laying demands on God; for what you want to happen in your life.

God does not hate anyone, if He did; He would not care if anyone went to hell. And therefore, would NEVER have sent us a Savior named Yeshua.

Finally, GOD never makes mistakes; only us mere mortal humans are capable of doing that.

Answer 6

FIRST THING IS GOD DON'T HATE ANYONE!! except satin who was once love to. the reason things get hard to do sometimes is that maybe you are trying to hard, and is not just saying ok god its in your hands, and let it be. when his time to do things he will!! you pray thats good, nothing wrong with praying, but you need to let him take care of it all. i was told one time to pray and when god sees fit he will answer it at his time. i think when a person pray about the same thing over and over, your'e in some way saying that you don't have anough fath to let him handle it from the first prayer, but in his time and only his time. just have faith!!!!!! thats what he said faith and beleave!!

Answer 7

It could be that you are being tested. Try praising Him while you are down and miserable. Praise Him in the good times and Praise Him in the bad times. It works for me. Start saying "thank you Lord for this nice girl you are sending my way." Keep reminding the Lord that you know she is coming because you know that He can do anything. Start telling yourself "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." "No weapon formed against me can prosper." "Lord increase my faith and help my unbelief." "I am fearfully and wonderfully made," because the Lord said so. Speak good things to yourself. Quit beating yourself up. read the Book of Psalms in the Bible and listen to what David had to say. Oh, and thank God that you are strong in heart so that the lonliness is not so bad. Praise you for my strength, Lord!

Answer 8

God is not a genie in a bottle. Things work in his timing. Maybe he wants to see how committed to Him you really are and not just because you are having a bad time. Maybe you need to talk to a church pastor. They can be very helpful in counseling and making sense of what God's will may be for you.

Answer 9

Try to focus on other people and their interests, problems, lives, and less on how you feel. Make yourself interesting by keeping up with current events and get a hobby and excel at it. "To have a friend you must show yourself friendly". Stop trying to make yourself happy and make it your business to make someone else happy if just in little ways.
Sow friendliness, kindness, and empathy and you will reap friendship.

Answer 10

God hates no one-- and God wants to see you happy - but if you are so focused on a relationship you may not be getting it -remember what you resist persist-- just live life and enjoy it - when you least expect it everything you want -you will have---smile daily**fake it till you make it

Answer 11

There is only one thing that GOD hates and that's sin.
Since GOD doesn't make mistakes that precludes any possibility of you being a mistake.
GOD never puts more on you than you can bare.