I'm almost involved with this guy who really, REALLY likes me and I really like him but I'm still friends with my ex. The break-up was my idea, my choice, and kind of only my thoughts.
Sometimes when I think about him, I start to miss little things like how in-tune with each other we sounded when we had conversations. I saw him drive by and I was thinking to myself, "I really wish I was in that car with him right now, drinking a smoothie (had no idea where that came from, guess I just wanted a smoothie then), and laughing."
He's a really cool guy and when we talk, we have a lot of fun together. I like him a lot as a person, he makes me laugh and stuff. When I last saw him (after we'd broken up), he told me that no matter what, he wouldn't leave until he kissed me. I kind of just shrugged it off, didn't think anything of it, and still don't.
It's not that I want to be with him again, I just know that I'd feel really happy to hang out with him some more.
Is that bad?
2007-03-16 11:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you aren't a bad person. you are definitely sounding like a confused person though. it sounds to me that you just might have some leftover romantic feelings for your ex. I think you might want to find out where he is and spend some time together. also, think about why you broke up in the first place, it seems like you had a good time together - what was missing? being friends with an ex is not bad, but you should really be sure you can be "just friends" before you hurt the next guy with unresolved feelings.
2007-03-16 11:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Sounds like your still in love with the ex. Why don't you give the ex another chance? Because guy #2 will only be your rebound if you continue to persue guy#2.
2007-03-16 18:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by mixdmagic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats not bad. Just tell him how much you miss being around him. But all you want to be is best friends i guess. Unless you still have feelings for him. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2007-03-16 18:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats totally normal. But if you are dating someone else I don't think that he would like the two of you hanging out. Just consider his feelings first.
2007-03-16 18:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but Yes. Sounds like to me you need to make a decision. Really it sounds like to me you may like him more than your current boyfriend.
2007-03-16 18:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad unless you act on it. It sounds like he's still in your system.
2007-03-16 18:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a terrible person.
2007-03-16 18:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
You suck.
2007-03-16 18:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by zoldosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are a bad,bad,bad,bad,very bad person!!
2007-03-16 18:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Yarina L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋