I recently moved into a small town and on the first day of school she talked to me and showed me around and flirted and stuff. A couple of weeks later I got the guts to ask her out and she said she had a bf. She hangs out with me more than she does with her bf but all they do is make out when theyre around eachother. I feel that i know this girl more than her bf does. her and her bf recently had a rough patch in their relatoinship and they almost broke up. but they didnt and she still doesnt completely trust him. she confides everything to me and i would never give any of her secrets. at first i thought that this was just a crush but now i know that i love her... help?
2007-03-16 11:07:39 · 17 answers · asked by gaara_o_sand 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She likes you as a friend..nothing more..you should be happy that you have such a nice friend.
2007-03-24 02:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to be attracted to someone who helps you out when you are new to anything.
If you bottle up your feelings for too long it could end in disaster, but you need to know now, because if there is no hope for a romantic relationship you should move on to find someone who can really appreciate you the same way you appreciate and love them.
If she really does appreciate you as a friend as awkward as it may seem she will continue to show you the same friendship after she knows your true feelings.
Hope this Helps
XoXo-------------Miss X
2007-03-16 11:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Miss X 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh, that sucks.
Well, maybe there was something there before she still want back. And maybe she likes you, but she doesnt want to risk the friendship.
Well she knows you like her. So, now you have to wait for her.
I would say get over her, but you cant just decide that.
its take a while, a long while if you love. her
just hang on!
2007-03-16 11:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Holymoly123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you should do is to leave them alone as you have become a source of problem for their relationship.
You are a catalyst to speed up the break up and a perfect alibi for the girl to misbehave.
2007-03-16 11:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by The Razor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be her confidant. That is what she needs right now. She isn't seeking a relationship worth more than friends. If you like her, just give her the space that she needs to see how she really feels.
2007-03-16 11:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
right now she sees you as a friend but soon she will c you as more than a friend but you need to help with that. start doing little sweet thing but dont make it so ovious. and i agree about the grab her kiss her and walk away afterwards she will be stunned but she will think about it and say to herself am i really where i want to be and then she will head into your direction.
2007-03-24 09:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by talentedancer1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a choice to make .....if they have issues to work out then you should encourage her to do that. Don't get too wrapped with her all at once she could decide to stay regardless of how things are and then you'll get hurt. Explore your options.
2007-03-16 11:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by angel_jm83 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is still with her boyfriend, that tells me that she is seriously considering working things out with him, so just butt out for now, and see how things turn out in about a month.
2007-03-16 11:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you're 'the friend'. She probably doesn't think of you as a guy.
2007-03-16 11:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have time to grow and learn there will be many girls in your life time will show you
2007-03-24 02:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋