She always does this whenever she likes someone, she always hangs out with them and rarely hangs out with her best buds. I've been thinking maybe I should show her how it feels to be left out just because I hate the dude. Well, here's what i was gonna do...I was gonna almost always hang out with this guy that I'm pretty sure likes me and show her how it feels. should i? or do u have a better way to stop them from hang out way too much?
2007-03-16 11:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah and he only actually likes her 4 her looks and hes my ex bf
2007-03-16 11:11:51 · update #1
and he wishes i was dead
2007-03-16 11:15:49 · update #2
you could try. I'm not sure if she'll notice if she's spending so much time with your "enemy". Like I said, try it, and when and if she starts to notice, explain that you're showing her how it feels, and then take some time together with no one else around to just talk and work it out. I personally think that friends should come before guys, cuz friends will last forever, but boys are just...whatever (except when it comes to the guy that you'll actually marry! lol)
2007-03-16 11:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cheyenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get a girl pal for the sake of 'having a girl pal'. only wait and locate somebody who you somewhat opt to be with. you would be some distance happier that way than only taking any random woman to the social gathering for the reason which you probably did no longer opt to pass as a single guy.
2016-10-01 01:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what it is like-- and jealousy sucks believe me. however, its not worth losing a friend over. if i were you i would take a break from hanging out with her for a while instead of following your plan which sounds more like revenge. If you follow your plan it will likely just make her mad, but if you take a break, and she's a true friend, she will probably realize that this is really effecting you in a negative way and come around ..
2007-03-16 11:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, think about how this poor guy will feel, you will just be using him and that isn't right, ever
if this girl cant see through some guy and hang with her best friends, she isn't a very good friend
and really its not your problem who she hangs out with, i get that you feel neglected and betrayed but she can be friends with whoever she chooses,
overall she doesn't seem like a good friend but you shouldn't get some innocent guy involved in this either, talk it out with her and if the situation calls for it don't be her Friend. but remeber, her friends are her friends
2007-03-16 11:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some new friends. What you hope to achieve will not work. They have your number and are beating you like a drum.
2007-03-16 11:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋