Um, should I do this or not??

Question

Okay, so there's this really cute and sweet guy at school. We flirt on many occasions and text only sometimes though. I think he likes me because he finds the silliest excuses to wrap his arms around me or get near me and he's always smiling or trying to get my attention in class and such. Today, he cracked a joke and I took it the wrong way, so I was upset. He wrote me a page long note telling me how he was sorry and why I wouldn't talk to him. I ended up not speaking to him for the rest of the day, and at dismissal he said he's call me tonight! If all goes well, I'm thinking of casually suggesting that we hang out sometimes. But I have a boyfriend who I really love. So do you think he likes me and should I go through with this? <3

Answer 1

Don't go through with it unless you know it will be as friends only OR unless you want to break up with your bf.

Answer 2

Ok... so well yea he for sure likes u *No doubt about it* He is head over heels for u. But i see the only problem stoppin u is ur bf and u probably really want to hang out wit the flirty guy but i dnt think u should because if u really love ur bf it could ruin things wit him and even though if yall did break up, u would have a rebound. But still i really dnt think u should do anything further unless u want to end it with ur bf!

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*Much Love* **God Bless**

Answer 3

Not if you have a boyfriend. I know you may want to make up for what you did today but if I were in your place I wouldn't do that because if he likes you he may take that the wrong way. What about your boyfriend???????? It's okay if you hang out with him in a group but not solo because that could be mistake for you liking him if you don't and should that happen you could find yourself in a bad position possibly single. Good Luck...

Answer 4

My advice is don't put yourself in a bad position. If you already have a boyfriend that you love don't egg someone else on because that will hurt him and wheather girls realize it or not when it comes to realationships guys can get hurt easier than girls they are more sensitive so talk to him and if you want to hang out as friends do so but make sure he is clear and make sure your boyfriend is okay with it so no problems break out. Good Luck!

Answer 5

hi smiley,
You are going to have to choose one or the other. Does this dude know that you are with some one or are you even not telling him that you are to leave your options open. Why are you even letting this guys put his arms around you? You know you would not like it if your man walked in and saw it happening. If you dont want to respect your BF right now then let him go find someone that will. If you want this dude then free yourself from your BF that way you are free to do what you please without hurting anyone. And just to let you know, the dude is going to want more then friends even if it starts out this way. It is simple, if you want to be with this new guy then leave your old one, but if you think that this guy is just going to be a fling, then go with what is aready working for you. You said yourself you love him. Dont mess with love. If you decide to gamble and go with this other guy then GL.

dunkaroo

tell me how it works out if ya want

Answer 6

BE CAREFUL. Your bf could take this the wrong way. This other guy could take this the wrong way. If your going to suggest hanging out, make it a group thing. Make sure your boyfriend is included in the group. Let him know what you have been thinking, and what has been going on with this guy. Be clear who is important to you, who you are committed to.

Answer 7

From the information you gave I have a strong feeling that he likes you!! But you are already in a relationship and you said that you really love him. If you really love your current boyfriend you shouldn't be leading on the guy that likes you. Think of both of their feelings and all they consequences. You may hang out with him though but as friends if you don't want anything bad to happen with you and your current boyfriend.
I hope this helps!
^_^V

Answer 8

If you have a boyfriend, why would you flirt with him the first place (especially since you claim to love your boyfriend)? You're sending him the wrong signals, unless you like stringing along boys even though you have a boyfriend. If you want to "go through with this" as you say, break up with your boyfriend first. But, why would you do that, especially since you claim to love your boyfriend?

Answer 9

What do you think? I mean are those actions stated in your Q of someone that hates you? As for his joke did you really take it the wrong way or is it one of those that are said to see how one takes it, as some jokes are designed that way as a test.
I'de like to comment on your last statement but that isn't what you asked?
Just out of curiousity does this really (cute=attractive to most females) guy see himself as that and possibly use it to his advantage as I do, LOL, just being a Tom, Dick and Harry

Answer 10

Wow that is F*d up.

No you should not. You have a boyfriend & you claim you love him. 2 good reasons not to do it right there.

If you want to explore romantic possibilities with somebody else you should be single first.

What you are doing is commonly referred to as "escape hatch dating", you are lining up your next boyfriend, then you will dump the one you have now, & immediately you have have boyfriend. Why? So you don't have to be single for 48 hours. WOW.

That is so unfair to your boyfriend.

You are totally going on a date with some other kid, you worked hard not to call it a date but it is.

Shame on you!

Answer 11

You couldnt possibly love your boyfriend all that much if you are flirting this much with another guy. I think you should split with the boyfriend and not hurt him, and then if you want to go out with this other guy then do it, but after you break up with the current one.