I have had a really rough past with guys. They have used to me in sexual actitivities. Which when we broke up I told my parents about. I just haven't had actual sex.
My parents now finally allowed to have another boyfriend, at age 14. And we are in love. We constantly can't stop thinking about each other. Yet the problem is I never get to see him because he does to a different school. And my parents won't let me see him.
I need advice in how I can at least prove to my parents I'm trustworthy with my boyfriend and I won't disappoint them?
2007-03-16 10:41:44 · 11 answers · asked by radioxrockstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask if he can come to your home to see you and include him with family activitys. let them see what a great guy he is and what a mature daughter you have become.
2007-03-16 10:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by following their rules. Maybe see if they would be open to meeting your new boyfriend and spending time getting to know him to see what kind of guy he is. Agree to things such as hanging out at your home for dates or group dates and ALWAYS follow through with what you say - no sneaking off to meet him or running off alone when you're on group dates. Prove to your parents that you've learned your lesson and can be trusted to do what they ask of you.
2007-03-16 17:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep like some of them said invite you boyfriend over so you parents can meet him.....show to your parents how the both of you behave with each other and it might just work..express to them at the same time like if they allow you to have another boyfriend why cant you meet him.....
2007-03-16 17:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not you are 14 and screwed up things before, and now you are in love, bull
get a life and boys wont mean as much too you
Get a life with friends and good people around you and just have fun
god you are 14
2007-03-16 18:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them you don't NEED a boyfriend by not having one for a long, long time. 14 yo? You don't have the ability to truly love yet.
2007-03-16 17:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by svelte59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. My parents dont want me to even go out and I am anyway and got my first bf yesterday. I need
help with that too.
2007-03-16 17:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your 14 yrs old and you should be having sex yet anyways invite him over for dinner, hang out at your house when your parents are home and yeah
2007-03-16 17:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by hotguybmx760 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not focus's on your studies, especially "sentence construing" instead of a boyfriend? That way, you will not disappoint them.
2007-03-16 17:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let them meet your boyfriend and ask them if he can go with ya'll like out to eat or something so that then they might get more used to him and trust him!
2007-03-16 17:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by lily w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow.
2007-03-16 17:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋