so my boyfriend and i have only been dating for about a month or so and we're really open with each other already so our relationship so far is very honest and good, and one day i told him that i had bought some cute underwear at the mall and he told me that he really wanted to see. Is it too soon for that or is it okay? does he really want to see or is that just something he said to make me feel wanted?
2007-03-16 10:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by Justine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, im 18 next month and yeah it seems really soon but its one of those relationships where i feel like i've known him forever. It may not be love, i dont know yet, but im so comfortable with him. We haven't had sex but he took the initiative to tell me that he didnt want to ruin anything with me and he wants to wait. This in itself made me like him a whole lot more
2007-03-16 10:50:31 · update #1
He wants to see it. I want to see it. Just about every guy over 12 wants to see it.
Are you comfortable showing him?
2007-03-16 10:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a little bit too soon.. Of course he wants to see it ..what guy wouldn't? But if I were you, I would show it to him go ahead... but not like he expects. Invite him in have the lingerie in the bathroom and tell him you are gettting something more comfortable. Then just bring it out and show him. Let him use his imagination..its good for him ...The anticipation with make when you do feel comfortable that more enjoyable.
2007-03-16 10:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, show him. But, hold it up in your hands, don't model it. Its a little too early to start modeling underwear in the raw. Just by showing him, (by holding it up), he can get his own ideas about what you'd look like in it. That would turn him on, and would keep him really interested in you.
The anticipation would do wonders for your relationship. If he wants to pressure you for more things to go with it, tell him that it is too early for that, and for him to cool it.
By showing him the new underwear, he will stay interested,....and how.!!!!!!
2007-03-16 10:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, that's a little soon for him wanting to see you in your underwear. But hey, it depends on how you feel. If you feel that the love is there and you are ready to show him, show him, but if you feel things are moving to fast, confrount him about it. If he really likes you, he'll be willing to wait. :]
2007-03-16 10:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he wants to see it, but I'm sure he wants to do something else.... probably he wants to touch too. If you are too young go easy, don't hurry because dating for only one month, I think is too soon for sex.
2007-03-16 10:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by butterflies_are_free_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your relationship is moving very fast. If your comfortable with that, then let it keep moving. And, trust me, any guy would love to see his girl in lingerie.
2007-03-16 10:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tony B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless he's GAY of course he would want to see you in your lingerie. Of course he is expecting to see you out of it soon afterwords. Yes it is too soon. No monkey business till a lifelong commitment is in place.
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2007-03-16 10:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends on how intimate you two already are. If you have already had sex, then why not! It will add to the "fun". If not, hold off and show him then!
2007-03-16 10:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by AE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy, your a girl, in underwear, of course he's gonna wanna see you in them!!! What guy wouldn't? Unless he was gay. So go for it, why not?
2007-03-16 10:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Savannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE he wants to see- what red blooded male wouldn't want to?
2007-03-16 10:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by gagesmomm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋