2007-03-16 10:35:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just can't get enough of this person - they excite you, they challenge you, they support you and help you to be the best person you can. Instead of arguing you respect each other and although you may have difference in values or opinions you choose to concentrate on the positive similarities you have. Plus the sex is hot!
2007-03-16 10:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be a 100% sure. Relationships are not easy and there will be times where you wonder if you can be with that person for the rest of your life. You may think you are a 100% sure but once you marry things often change so you should make sure you are compatible with your partner and that you guys communicate well with each other. Just remember: trust, loyalty and respect.
2007-03-16 17:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by 2Tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the interesting thing about life-
nothing is certain.
You may "know" like you've never been sure of anything in your life, and it still might not work out.
You may, on the other hand, have jitters all the way through the wedding well into your first year of marriage and still get through it.
The truth is, after getting to know them long enough, you just have to take the plunge-and yes, for life (emphasis on a reasonable amount of courtship-don't marry someone a month after meeting them no matter how amazing the fireworks).
You're in it for better or worse. Consider: Will I still love this person if they have a major accident and become handicapped? If they lose their job and money is tight for a while? If age starts to take a toll on their porcelain skin?
Marry the person, not their exterior.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 17:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we have a soul mate or someone that is perfect out there for us. We are creatures of our environment and we can only meet the people we are around. I think the the true thing you should look for is compatibility. If you are compatible with that person and it turns into love, then allow that to happen. I don't think you should force love, if it doesn't develop it just doesn't. I think you can fall in love with multiple people, if your spouse dies or get a divorce... you can fall out of love with someone. People change as they get older. Take your time and you'll eventually love someone, just make sure it's for the right reasons. Live with the person before you marry them.
2007-03-16 17:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMEMBER THE SAYING THE ONLY THINGS CERTAIN IN THIS LIFE ARE DEATH AND TAXES,IT'S TRUE and just because you think you are 100% sure doesn't mean the other person is or either of you won't change your minds down the road.
2007-03-16 20:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by annaramsey1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be 100%. However, I married the woman that I could not stand to live without, not just the one that I could stand to live with.
2007-03-16 17:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by InspireTomorrow.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you will never get married then.
When the day comes that you are 100% sure, you will be wrong.
2007-03-16 17:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When you find yourself thinking, "I wouldn't want to be with anyone else." This thought is the result of a serious, committed, trusting relationship. When the other person is more important to you than you are to yourself, then you are ready. You won't get it otherwise.
2007-03-16 17:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple adjustment: It should have been : "How do I know?"
If so, then your heart and mind will be directed towards one person to be the center of your life at this point only YOU will know!
2007-03-16 17:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the only person you think about is your partner... when their the one you want to come home to... when their the one who makes you do a double take.... when their the one your trying to impress....when their the one you want to wake up to each morning.....when their the one you want to show to the world...when their the one that makes you bush......when their the one that makes you speechless.......when their the one that makes your heart skip a beat and there's butterflies in your stomach.......That is the one!!!!
2007-03-16 17:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋