I'm 15. I have a friend and I don't know if she likes me or is just comfortable around me. I like her btw. See, we were laying in bed watching a movie and she didn't mind being close to me and she was kind of laying on me a bit and I had my arm around her. Would she be like that if she didn't like me more than a friend?
Next time we are in this situation (probably this weekend) what shoud I do? And should I go further to see if she likes me?
2007-03-16 10:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm 17 and I've been in your situation before, trust me. I would let whatever happen happens, if that makes any sense to you! Don't rush. Take your time and see how it goes. =]
P.S. I think she likes you and is always comfortable around you, no matter where you two are.
2007-03-18 12:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by AlYSSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely comfortable with you and feels that you are not a threat. You don't get this unless you've been kind, curteous, and respectful of her to let her feel safe with you. It's probably not what you want to hear, but she may just be your friend if you've known her for a long time and do not desire romance with you. I'm hoping you didn't fall into the "I like you/am comfortable with you like a brother" category.
However, you don't get to skip courting her if you are interested in her. You do have a head start since she knows you aren't a creep. If you are interested in her, then the next thing you need to do is to tell her that and ask her out on a date. Take it slow. She may jump at it or she may not and have to go think about it long and hard. The real question is whether she is interested in your romantically and whether she is willing to risk her close friendship with you for romance. Does she talk about her romantic interests with you? Does she have a boyfriend or someone that she talks to you about that she's interested?
2007-03-16 10:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you. I like my best guy friend and I wish I was in the same situation. So she definitely likes you! I think you should ask her and if you are to shy to do that maybe just go a little further during the weekend! Hope this helps!
Good Luck!
2007-03-16 10:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman. first of all, look at how she is around different men. Is she friendly around them too? It additionally relies upon in case you men have been acquaintances for an prolonged time to. I had a distinctive guy pal that I knew for an prolonged time, and that i could be laying with him. no longer even questioning approximately something. yet once you place your arm round her,it is somewhat distinctive. and that i think of she already knows of how you sense. countless women do no longer prefer to make the 1st circulate. My advice is that in case you like her, circulate forward and make a circulate. once you're laying along with her, and additionally you sense it is ceremony(which you would comprehend)gently circulate the hair out of her face, or play along with her hair, in a comfortable action. If she permit's you, you may make a circulate. If she does not, or seems to unlike, circulate no further. And play it off such as you theory their replaced into some thing in it. ha ha. anyhow permit me comprehend the way it is going.
2016-10-02 06:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by zaheer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be nothing more than she feels really comfortable with you. If you make a move without first talking to her, you risk losing her friendship if she only wants to be friends. I hope it works out for you, good luck.
2007-03-16 10:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say that she really likes you but is afraid to say anything for the fear of rejection and what you should do is see if she will let you cuddle her and if she does then move in for the dreaded first kiss because if she will let you cuddle her she more than likely likes you.
2007-03-16 10:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that's cute.
I think that she might be trying to toy around with you a biut.. (flirting) or she's really comfertable with you. ASk her.... But aboit the whole scaring away deal.... just be like, upfront about it and tell her you don't want to ruin your relationship, friends or more.
2007-03-16 10:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you, but dont rush things it'll scare her off
show her in a subtle way you like her too so she can take a hint you two can go off to the next stage soon
2007-03-16 10:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋