There's this guy and he's really cool (we'll call him T) and we used to talk in school, on AIM and stuff. Then one day he gave my screenname to one of his friends (we'll call him F) because F liked me - a lot. After that, T and I used to talk even MORE. We had a lot in common and used to talk for hours on AIM all the time. We would talk about everything and he would always answer my texts and say hi to me in the hall and respond quickly on AIM and everything. Sometimes he would bring up F and ask, "So how are you and F?" As of right now, F and I aren't going out but we both really like each other and it's in the making and a good percentage of our grade knows. But my whole relationship with T has changed. He doesn't talk to me anymore, he doesn't bring up F anymore, he doesn't say hi to me, he takes FOREVER to answer on AIM. Then one day, two of T's best friends said to me, "So what's up with you and T?" "Why are you playing games with T? You're messing with his mind," in kind of a...
2007-03-16 10:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...joking way. Then T's friend (who has always been nice to me) has started being really, really mean and telling me I'm weird and asking why I always talk to T.
What did I do wrong? Why does T ignore me and why are his friends mean to me?!
2007-03-16 10:30:48 · update #1
Your probably a very attractive girl, and these boys probably got one of they're egoes hurt. Some guys have that "Bros before hoes" Attitude. I personally dislike this attitude. T probably liked you alot and never told you. Sounds to me this guy F is immature for you, or he had his hopes up for something more with you. Being clear about how you feel towards someone is a good way to avoid getting people hurt, but sometimes people get hurt anyways. But they will usually get over it with time. T probably has some kind of inner self doubt. Or it could be something completely different. Hope this helps a bit.
2007-03-16 10:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Skipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase you are teasing the poor man, and now he wont let you do it anymore. I dont blame him, I mean seriously you shouldnt mess around with people like that.
Im just messing with you, it sounds like T liked you all along but was too afraid to ruin a friendship by trying to be more. Why he told you about F I will never know, but when a guy tells someone something, it somehow always gets turned around. That usually happens when we talk to females, they usually twist our words around and make us look like jerk offs. As for the ignoring thing, I think he might have been fed false info on you.
Maybe he talked to a friend of yours and they said that you had no interest in him at all, T that is. So that probably pissed him off or made him feel like an idiot. As for F, he is a friend of T's and he might have gotten things twisted to, and it might have come out that you were using F to get to T.
Stuff like that, maybe not exactly, and yeah I know its confusing, this is why I never listen to anyone accept for the person it pertains to. T should have talked more about how he felt with you, and you with him. F should have done the same, this way a relationship would have been made, instead of falsified behind your back. Its not all your fault, but unless you approach them about it, you will never know what happened. And if you dont care, then why'd you ask?
2007-03-16 17:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by David K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure that he liked you and was giving your screen name out and asking about "F" because he wanted to see if you liked him too. You should not have started anything with "F" until you knew if "T" liked you if you were going to get upset when this happened. Cuz it was bound to...
If you want "T" then you should dump "F" and just TALK to "T" instead of wondering and playin games. tell him you AREN'T interested in "F" and just maybe he'll admit his feelings too
2007-03-16 17:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think t hooked you up with f then he started liking you. if t's friendship is important to you just call him, do not aim. "your friendship is important me but something has changed. can we talk about it? have i done or said something to offend you. i am sorry if i have.
give him the chance to explain what is happening.
if f is who you want to date tell him that something is wrong with t and just let him know you are going to call him to see what is up. f may already know since they are friends.
2007-03-16 17:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess he likes you but does not want to admit it and thats why he gave the address away if he did not like you he would still talk to you but because he does thats why he ignores you you can make a bold move and ask him if you break up with the other guy would you want a relationship with me and see what happens
2007-03-16 17:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you playing games with T
2007-03-16 17:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am annoying that herts my feelings
2007-03-16 17:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by afdsaffadsfafafa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And
2007-03-16 17:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are annoying ;(
2007-03-16 17:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Angel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i geusse he likes you
2007-03-16 17:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋