Date a 16 yr old when im only 11 he is into drugs and stuff but I still like him he is my sisters BFF brother and i see him every once in a while my sister and her BFF know i like him but he still doesnt have a CLUE i like him he hangs out with me and he wouldnt DARE to hurt me but what should i do????????
2007-03-16 10:25:09 · 21 answers · asked by Cool chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm an adult. You can't tell me what to do.
What would an 11 year old have to offer for a 16 year old? If he's even a little normal, he'll stay clear of you. Why don't you just concentrate on being a kid? You're too young to date.
2007-03-16 10:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he is your sister's BFF's brother, then you already have a positive side there. that means it could turn out to be a good relationship. If i was in your situation i would definetly go for it, but i don't think he may accept you becaue your only 11, i'm not saying that it won't work out but it's unlikley. It doesnt matter if he's into drugs and stuff, you can't judge a book by it's cover. it's on the inside that matters. Just follow your heart , that's the best thing to do.
2007-03-16 17:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe Diem (Seize The Day) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm 11 I'm on my moms cause i cant use mine I'm too young... any ways I think u should choose someone Ur own age Plus hes into drugs... I wouldn't. Find another boy at school there has to be someone.Just hang around with him sometime but dint date him!!
I noe boys I always hang with them. I noe how they work. If he gets on drugs he might hurt u even when hes not doing it on purpose or maybe he'll hurt u because hes High and doesn't noe what hes doin... you'll get over it... Just find another boy... That's what i would do!
2007-03-16 17:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by chiyoko b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so I'm 14 but I'm going to answer anyways...
1) If you and him are somewhere together and the police catch him with drugs while you're with him, they will just assume that you're doing drugs as well.
2) He's a bit too old for you!
3) Don't do it, that would be just plain stupid!
2007-03-16 17:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by icee_mountain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 16 and is into drugs that is not who you should br "dating" find someone your age man like i think that is sick a 16 year old taking advantage of an 11 year old girl.
2007-03-16 17:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I am 13 years old and i date guys MY age. Bad idea just stick with someone who doesnt do drugs, and is smart and your age,likes you, and stay away from you sisters bff.
2007-03-16 17:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 14 years old and I think u shouldn't date him because he's too old 4 u and u are to young for dating(u are only 11)
second reason is that he's into drugs and he should stop taking them
i have a friend who is in love a guy that is taking drugs and once she said to me that she will take drugs just for him if he would as her 2 take them...
2007-03-16 17:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by nika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bit naive to assume that a druggie who is five years older than you couldn't dare hurt you. Maybe he wouldn't do it intentionally, but I think you need to focus on spending time with someone closer to your age who doesn't participate in risky behavior. I understand that you might really like him, but you could do something that you will regret later. It's also illegal for the two of you to have a relationship; he could get into serious trouble. Be careful!
2007-03-16 17:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by sbeneli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if he's into drugs, then he's obviously bad news...Besides, you're only 11, and he's sixteen. Enjoy being a kid while you still can.
2007-03-16 17:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tony B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt date him, just wait til ur 16 to date
2007-03-16 17:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋