Why do women claim to want a nice guy but in reality they want to be treated like crap from a guy who's a dick

Answer 1

Those are women with low self esteem who don't believe they should be treated better. They don't have respect for a guy who's nice to them.

Not all women are like that.

Answer 2

Well not all --- some women fall prey to the wolf in sheep's clothing (the dick that acts like a nice guy) and vice versa. It's the way of the world my friend

Answer 3

They don't...apparently you don't know many women...

What makes you think such an outlandish statement could apply to over 3 billion people? Perhaps if you'd worded your question as "Why do some women..." then you'd get more of the type of answer your seeking.

Blanket statements are almost never correct.

Did you get dumped or rejected by a woman who ended up with one of the 'bad boys'? Typically that's when this type of question gets asked...

Answer 4

I know, it's because those 'tough guys' are better in bed! Nice guys are the ones you marry. If you're a bit of both, then you rule the world. Women (subconsiously) want a man who can give them security and make them feel like a real woman! That kind of makes us stupid! But please don't ever turn into one of them. You just need to find a woman who is pleased by you.

Answer 5

Dude, I feel you, but I think what happens with "nice guys" is that they tend to be clingy or too sensitive. I am struggling with this myself. A woman wants a MAN, someone who is level-headed, confident, makes her feel secure, has money (yes don't deny it ladies), and who can be strong. I think I've messed my relationship up because I've acted too nice. I think I went too far. I'm trying to fix it now by not being so readily available. I'm not being a jerk, but I'm trying to make my girl realize that she has a special guy. I'm pulling away just a little (but not too much). There has to be a certain level of intrigue in a relationship. Every one wants a challenge. She has been a challenge to me, and I keep going after the bait. I'm just turning the table a little.

lol, I just sent my girl an e-mail telling her that I was going to be with my buddy Kevin tonight and that I'll see her tomorrow. Normally, we see one another EVERY FRIDAY night. She sent me an e-mail saying that she hopes I won't be out too late because she really wants to see me. SHE NEVER SAYS "I really want to see you." lol, you see, I just played the field a little. I love her, but hey, I'm learning to take control of the situation. Of course, I'll never cheat on her, but remember, YOU'VE GOTTA BE A MAN!

Answer 6

I really want and have a nice guy. In the past, as soon as a boyfriend started acting like an ******, I dumped him. I don't want to be treated like crap.

Answer 7

I'll tell you how to recognize these women B4 you ever date them to save yourself a huge letdown - ask them how well they get along with their Fathers - if they DON'T respect their Dad, they will not respect you no matter HOW nice you are! AND, you might try a different class of women -

Answer 8

They don't. I have a perfectly amazing guy that would do anything for me. They just have to grow up and mature a little before they find the perfect one. Those girls just go for looks and thats it

Answer 9

i think i m a nice guy, but not much success with the ladies, maybe this is the reason, or maybe it is just that im not good enough fun for them to be around.

Answer 10

Tis not true for all women... But, yes, most... Because that's just human nature.. People want what they can't have...