Looking for opinions here...
There's a girl I really like that already has a boyfriend. We're friends and do things together, but it always 'gets to me' that she's already taken and I can't be more than just friends with her. I've thought about just not seeing her anymore, but that would be depressing as well, because I really like her. What would you do?
2007-03-16 10:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by JC 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to realize is that it is normal to have feelings for someone that close, esp. at your age. Give her some time. You don't want to date someone who doesn't want to date you. If she wants to be with you, she will break up with her boyfriend.
2007-03-16 10:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I would let her know that you like her cause maybe she might like you as well. I know that it is scary to tell someone how you feel but in the end it is all worth it. Sorry if this is not much help, but just try to talk to her or some how see if there might be a chance that she likes you too.
2007-03-16 17:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Purple Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this girl that you like, is it deep or shallow. If it's deep, then be friends. You don't have to go to the next level, just be friends. Don't wait until she doesn't have a boyfriend, she might feel that you listened to all of her problems because you wanted to go out with her. You just have to be patient.
2007-03-16 17:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. Well, if I were you, I would be around just in case anything ended up not working with her and her bf as long as it wasn't too painful. Then maybe she will need a shoulder to cry on....
2007-03-16 17:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by loves2sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, you'll be patient and wait for them to break up. You'll also be there for her when she needs a friend when they break up.
If your just another guy, you'll get tired of waiting, give up, and go find another girl.
lool :P
2007-03-16 17:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rozyyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect the fact that she is dating someone else. Be honest with her, but don't pressure her to break up, or anything stupid like that.
2007-03-16 17:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got the same problem just the other way around so i cant help u but let me kno what people say, kay!!
2007-03-16 17:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by .:CHULA:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her and see how she responds. at least she can tell she feels and if she feels the same way or feels that yall she b jus friends.
2007-03-16 17:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by msspongebob26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stop talking to her thats pretty bad unless you feel you need to stop talking to her. just wait be patient after a while it will come to you.
2007-03-16 17:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u saw her boyfriend makin out with another girl, or guy!!!
2007-03-16 17:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋