i always find a very remote place to practice so i dont disturb anyone or appear to be showing off, but it almost never fzails that one women will strike up a conversation with me. (im not complaining) but what a music is so attractive to women>
2007-03-16 09:56:13 · 16 answers · asked by wq e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you find out the answer, please tell me. I find musicians so attractive I had to stop dating, because they don't make good mates. Now when I meet a new guy my first question involves asking them what they do for a living and to please go away if the answer is "musician"., actually what I say is "Really? Whats your real job?"
It does depend on their age, if your in your 20's, go for it, become a famous musician, if your in your 30's, I hope you have Plan B. If your in your 40's.....grow-up, I wanted to be a ballerina when I grew up....thank God for Plan B.
2007-03-16 10:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you were a musician or an artist you'd be attractive to women because you have something you're passionate about and extremely skilled at. Most people work to pay bills. You work to support yourself financially and for what inspires your soul. People seek out other people for what they're missing in their own lives. Musicians also have that air of fantasy about them. All girl grew up wanting a fantasy. You're not on that white horse but you have fans who adore or idolize you creating an air of perfection and thus attraction.
2007-03-16 10:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I suppose it's because songs usually feel so personal, so if someone is singing to you or around you it can feel very intimate, which can be a good thing if you're playing well. An attractive person playing probably helps too.
Plus musicians often have a certain lean look that can be very intriguing...
2007-03-16 10:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by primapeache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it either...even before I was a musician myself, musicians didn't interest me and now that I am one and know so many, they interest me even less! lol
But I see women throwing themselves at no-name musicians all the time (even the ones that suck) at local gigs and flirting with the big name ones from the audience. It's pretty pathetic. I suppose it's intriguing to them to associate with someone who performs on stage.
All in all, it rarely turns out well. I've seen guys in the bands I work with use up the women who vie for their attention and just kick them out of the hotel in the morning (or sooner) more times than I can say and these women never learn.
2007-03-16 10:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chanteuse_ar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the reason I'm attracted to musicians is because I am one myself, so I'll have something to talk about with that guy.
Other girls might be attracted to musicians because they express their emotions in their music and I guess that's just attractive to us.
2007-03-16 10:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. Not all women are attracted to musicians. That is just a huge misconception of women.
2007-03-16 09:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure its the music? Gold-diggers see dollar signs or the potential to get dollar signs as one of the reasons they fall for musicians. On the other hand, there are the rare breed that just see a talented guy and are genuinely attracted. Just my opinion.
2007-03-16 10:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Welcome, to the real world! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women love musicians. My bf plays the bass guitar and i love to just sit around and listen to him play. I think if a girl really likes you she will love to listen to you.
2007-03-16 10:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
music has always attract people not only that women !maybe its the way you play your instrument that attract her personally.
2007-03-16 10:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think becuze they have a good talent in being a musician
2007-03-16 10:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Calif_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋