My girlfriend and I have been dating for three years. We have not had sex in three months because she is not sure about our relationship. I was in her room waiting on her and she was not going to be home for 30 mins. I went in her panty draw and gave a pair of her panties. I started materbating with her panties when she walk in her room. She thinks I'm a freak and crazy. How do I justify my behavior?
2007-03-16 09:47:36 · 28 answers · asked by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that is the closest thing you could get to the real thing in the last 3 months. Tell her, it wasn't going to take care of itself and you had to take matters "in your own hands". I really don't know what she is mad about, maybe you should be mad at her for making you wait 3 months. I think that just b/c you aren't having sex with her, doesn't mean she isn't having sex.
Tell her to get over it, it was innocent, and every guy does it...just not on their girlfriends panties....if she is still mad, offer to wash her panties in with a load of your gym socks, and tell her that you think this will make them smell better.
2007-03-18 07:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't really...I mean, granted it's not an uncommon happening, but you really should have done that in the privacy of your own home, or at least her bathroom.
It sounds like your girlfriend is having her own issues if she has chosen cutting off sex as a way of helping your relationship. Maybe the two of you should seek couples counseling. If you suggest this to your girl, maybe she will see that you really want to make your relationship work, rather than seeing you as a perv.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 16:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't be justified..te only thing that been done is for you to make light of the situation. Tell her something like you have miss her so much that the scent of her and being in her room just made it so irresistable since it had been so long..LOL
2007-03-16 16:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she should understand that a guy who has been cut off for three months has needs and that he must still be attracted to her under the circumstances. But, maybe I am just a little more open minded. Good luck.
2007-03-16 16:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that's like if you walked into your room and saw your girlfriend playing with your boxers. You would be freaked out also. Tell her that you know she is not sure about your relationship, and that you respect her decisions and opinions. But also tell her, "Baby I just missed the way your lingerie soothed me, and the way it felt as it caressed my body. I am sorry I freaked you out, and I am sorry."
2007-03-16 17:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bertha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont justify it...You violate her the moment you went into her draw...The only thing you can do now is apologize and explain why you did it...If you really care about her give her space and let her come around...Good Luck
2007-03-16 16:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fascinating items aren't they...
Some men wonder about our underthings and just look at you. I personally think it's cute, I could imagine you face when you got caught...anyway, I don't see nothing wrong with you being in her pantie drawer. Just as long as you are not trying to wear them... LOL.....
2007-03-16 16:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say I was haveing a manly moment and its perfectly natural for this to happen. And that your sorry and will never do it again and it is a little odd though. I wouldnt want my boyfriend doning that.
2007-03-16 16:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Traci 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, ya what you did probly freaked her out. I dont know what you can say buddy, you did something pretty nasty there, especially in her home, in her room, and with her things. Sorry, cant help you there.
2007-03-16 16:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Nodnarb Renmarc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i also think thats a little freaky. i wouldn't want to catch my boyfriend doing something like that...what is the reason for your behavior anyway? just because you didnt have sex for 3 months??
2007-03-16 16:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by ajv 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋