i really like him but he gets me really mad sometimes
hes mean to my bestfriend
he acts really mean to me when he is with his friends---like when i try to hug him he pushes me away
but then he can be really nice and its always when their no one around
he does the things i like---kissing me on the cheek
hugs me from the back
so thats why i dont know what to do i really like him but hes mean to me almost all the time....
so please give me some advice...stay with him or leave
2007-03-16 09:45:54 · 14 answers · asked by i'm a rebel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I'd kick his *** to the curb and find someone better than him to treat you the way you should be treated.
2007-03-16 09:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Michael_D_Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up!! Leave the guy. How can he be your boyfriend if he treats you like that. A boyfriend should treat you decent all the time not just when you're alone. You can find someone that really cares about you. So tell him to hit the door.
2007-03-16 10:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you like someone that doesn't want to admit or show his friends or the public that you're with him? The guy you're with should be proud that you're on his arm and wanting to show you off.
Pushing you away in front of his friends most likely means that he's ashamed of you or that his friends tease him about being with you or something. There's a reason why he does that.
Honey, there's nothing there for you to "really like" at all.
Leave the jerk. you're wasting your time with him when you could be with a guy that deserves your fabulous self!
2007-03-16 09:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. He loves you when no one else is around and is mean to you in front of others. You could try talking to him but I don't think it will do much good--he will probably deny his behavior or try to minimize it somehow. If he really cared, he's treat you well--period.
2007-03-16 09:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by fun_purple_beach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think hard....i mean that u have to figure out if his good side makes up for his bad side and how much you really like him try doing that he sounds like sometimes he can be a jerk but other times he can be the sweetest guy...try talking to him about it and see whats happening i think it will work for you and your boyfriend
2007-03-16 09:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should talk to him, saying that you are acting like you are not even his girlfriend around his friends. Also, you should ask why he is mean to your friend-maybe say some good things about her.
It depends if you want to break up-when you are around him, you should feel good.
2007-03-16 09:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he acts like that towards you around people then maybe he doesnt want people to know your goin out =( you should dump him it would be best 4 u. it might end up worse if you dont, and u can prolly do better than that =) (good luck)
2007-03-16 09:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Don't prolong the agony of this worthless relationship. If he is the type of guy that won't be sweet in front of his friends that you can do so much better.
2007-03-16 09:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude sounds really immature! You guys must be really young.
Mature guys don't act like this. You got to decide whether you want to take it or not. I say not!
2007-03-16 09:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his ***
PLEASE
He's an inmature inconsiderate jerk. RUN
get some self esteem before it's too late. trust me. been there done that and now I'm paying for it.
2007-03-16 10:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋