I have a boyfriend that my mom does not know about. I want ot tell her but i don't know how to approach her without laughing or being to random. HELP!!
2007-03-16 09:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by fluffy_boy1823 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it would help to know whether or not she believes you're old enough to date. if you are, you'll score brownie points by telling her that you didn't want to keep this from her and wanted her to hear it from you. be prepared for what she'll say. if you're explicitly breaking one of her rules, tell her that you are aware of that and that's why it has been hard for you to say something before now. then be quiet and listen to what shesays.
2007-03-16 13:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by rainyday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry i know how you feel... but the best thing for you to do right now is stop panicing. Parents arent as stupid as we think so she will be able to figure out whats going on. Heres some things you can think about before you approach her.
1. Are you allowed to date at this age
2. Is your mom good at taking this kind of news
3. Are you really ready to tell your mom
If you have thought about these things and you still want to tell her then you should find a time that is convenient for both you and her and tell her that you would like to speak with her privately. Be very mature about it and just start from the beginning and work your way through. After your done ask her what she thinks and this will get the conversation started.
You'll be set
2007-03-16 16:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom never handles these things well either! I don't know what is up with that. Well anyway back to YOUR needs.
You should call her over when you think she is ready to handle this. Tell her about all the good things about your boyfriend. If she asks about something bad about him just tell her the bad thing she asked about but make it good. Make sure to tell her about the good things mostly.
2007-03-16 17:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same situation!! Just talk to her about something that has to do with dating, like if he's from school start talking about school, etc. Your mom should understand, my mom did. She'll be happy that you told her too.
2007-03-16 16:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Just trying to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in anyway even if u laugh just u have to say it to her and how that u have to decide.
2007-03-16 16:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm tell her that u met this guy and he wants to hang out and just take it day by day bring him over so they can meet and after that tell her..
2007-03-16 17:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about something else and then change the subject. thats the best way
2007-03-16 16:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by ................... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋