There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why we can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, and people at work are being extra nice which bothers me. Yesterday and today I didn't say antyhing to him and ignored him, but he keeps acting like he wants me to notice him. Sometimes he'll keep walking around or getting up from desk so I can see him.
2007-03-16 09:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on... I wouldn't want a guy who is trying to hit on me and is engaged. Trust me he would do the same thing to you. The reason why he is acting like this is because he want the comfort of being engaged ( soon to be married) but in the meantime, he wants a little booty call on the side and you didnt fall for it. Pretty much that crushed his ego and he's out to make you feel like a freak. Just ignore him, you deserve better. Plus, romance and co-workers dont mix. If you dont watch yourself you will find your name listed under office whore. Men have a sad way of validating their manhood sometimes!
2007-03-16 09:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by hypnotiq8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he's the weird one. I wouldn't waste my time on him. He want's his cake a eat it too. He's not interested in you, he just wants the attention that you give, since his girl is not around. If a person goes all out to tell you to leave him alone and disconnect everthing, then he don't want you. Don't play into his game playing. Put your focus on other things or someone else and watch what he does. Next he'll be in your face. Never chase after a man. He's a real Jerk !
2007-03-16 16:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rumba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's is playing games and girl you deserve better. IGNORE him and act like the sun revolves around you. Don't try his cell phone, e-mail, and please do not Western Union him. He is in a world all about him and not considering you or your feelings. Also, his girl might have had suspensions about the both of you and told him to cut all ties. It is his Lost. Good Luck.
2007-03-16 16:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he this is his way of keeping himself out of trouble with the fiancee'. You are a temptation for him apparently, so it's easier for him to have no contact. Yet, he likes you, hence this mixed signals. My best advice is to stay away from him like he asked. Getting involved with a taken man is always a bad idea.
2007-03-16 16:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Quick. He is playin games with you, and your too good for that.
2007-03-16 16:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by xanthostaos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋