2007-03-16 09:08:04 · 32 answers · asked by k w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
please help that i am not going crazy i have a feeling that they are seting him up t meet other girls. his people don't like me much
2007-03-16 09:33:13 · update #1
Grow up...everything is going to be okay. It's not like they are going to go behind doors and get it on.....
2007-03-16 09:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't be mad. I mean his friends are still his friends whether you are apart of the picture or not. My fiance asked both of his brothers to be in our wedding but I didn't ask their wives. I mean I know them and all but that doesn't mean that they are my best friends. So just because he's really godd friends with somebody that doesn't automatically you a best friend. But I would be mad if they did it on purpose like you said for him to meet girls. But honestly you will be there the whole time. You are supposed to be invited to the rehearsal dinner and then other than that besides the actual walk and stuff you will be with him at all times. So if they are doing it for him to meet girls well then I guess their little plan just backfired. But don't be mad it's not really something to get mad about unless you really are good friends with the bride. Good Luck!
2007-03-16 10:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that's a silly reason to be mad. Walking another girl down the aisle does not mean they'll be hooking up later. If that's what you are worried about then you probably have some trust issues you should work on. And if you are both in the wedding, just FYI, those things are usually decided by height, not by who would look cute walking together.
2007-03-16 09:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean he is in the wedding party and you are not? Obviously he knows the bridal couple better than you so that is why he was invited. You are being paranoid and selfish.
Etiquette dictates that you should be invited to the wedding as well. If you are then you have nothing to worry about...except the obvious trust issues in your relationship.
Just relax and enjoy the fact that you don't have all the wedding stress that being a part of the official ceremony has!
2007-03-16 13:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen control freak... Ask the bride and groom if you can walk your man down the ailse with a leash because thats how you have him.
Your man is asked to be in a wedding by a friend for a reason. This person thought he'd be a good representation of their friendship to stand up for him. Not to meet other girls. Get over yourself.
2007-03-16 10:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You already asked this. Are you mentally ill?
That's extremely immature. That tells me that you have no self confidence, you are jealous, and that their are problems in your marriage. It seems that you are scared that if your husband spends ANY time with a female, he is going to leave you, so you try to keep him on lock down. That's because you have low self esteem. If you are that insecure in your marriage, get out. Or maybe he's cheated on you in the past and you are afraid it will happen again. If that is the case, you should probably leave him, but what can he possibly do with the girl he is walking with? Feel her up while everyone is watching? You need to get to the real problem in your marriage. This seems like a symptom of a bigger problem and you need to find out whats really bugging you.
2007-03-16 10:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. My bf of 8 years and I were married in 2005. Later that same year, his friend got married and he was walking. The groom pressured the bride to include me in the bridal party, which she didn't want to do, but did any way. Things turned out alright, but it's the couple's day, not mine or my husbands, and it's their choice who gets to be in the wedding or not. If the bride has people she's wanted to be bridesmaids for years, it makes sense for her to choose who's in or not.
2007-03-16 09:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angie V 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chill out girl. You're gonna get an ulcer over nothing. That isn't unsual at all. Happens everyday. You can go to the wedding can't you?
2007-03-16 09:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by sarge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I was in a wedding this past summer and all the attendants were married to eachother except for me and one groomsman, but I was the MOH and I walked with the Best Man and he was married to another BM and she walked with the other groomsman whose wife wasnt in the wedding. My husband wasnt mad that I walked with another man and neither was the BM whose husband I walked with.
2007-03-16 09:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no, why do you think you have the right to be mad? He was asked to be in a wedding and your usually paired up with a girl to walk down the aisle with. It's not like he went out and found a date to bring to the wedding.
2007-03-16 09:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
No. Well, it depends on whose wedding it is. Maybe they want somone of the family to walk with him. If you were married, then it may be a little bit different. But don't be mad, it's nothing you did or didn't do. Just let him be, and dance with him at the reception or somthing.
2007-03-16 09:13:04 · answer #11 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋