why are guys sooooooooooooo meen to big girls?

Question

i meen i am over weight n every guy except 1 has treated me like crap n i dont know why i meen i am a nice chick n all but most guys judge females by there looks n i just think that is soooooooooo dam worng they should not do that plz give me some honest answers n dont lie about it thanks

Answer 1

Men expect so much of women thanks to Hollywood. Everyone is used to seeing anorexic skeletors on TV and they expect real women to look like that too. Have you ever considered the kind of men you surround yourself with? Maybe it's time to move onto more mature guys. When you find a man who looks past the superficial crap he really will think you are absolutely beautiful, on the inside and on the outside. Just remember, the problem is not you...it's the people who are blind and can not see beauty for what it really is.

Answer 2

Babygirl don't let that crap get to you.
Guys are insensitive jerks don't worry sweetie you'll see they are just overweight balding losers waiting to happen. They think that their idea of a sexy woman is the best but they don't realize that alot of really hot chicks with perfect bods are either shallower than an almost non existent puddle or a total ho they could never trust. Bottom line most guys won't give a big girl the time of day mostly cuz they are afraid of what their friends will think but make no mistake there are plenty of fine guys that like big girls.

And once they've had that big girl they can't get enough!!

Don't let it hurt babe things will get better!
Just know that it doesn't matter what people say.
What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
Being big doesn't mean you can't be beautiful.


BRAD T
you need to get over yourself honey and quit talkin all that smack !!
Don't listen to that fool!

Answer 3

guys can't perform sexually if they are not attracted to a woman, believe me I have tried it, the turtle goes back in his shell. I was trying to show what a better person I was by doing a fat chick, ( I know I am too kind) but it was really difficult to stare at that mountain of woman and get all turned on, women don't have to maintain an erection to copulate, so it is easier for them. guys can't help being all about the looks believe me I gave it a shot. and I have never had a single female come up to me and say I am gonna do you because you are so pitiful looking. life doesn't work that way.I can't believe you actually went here. and I can't believe I actually answered such a booshit question, see, I should be entered into sainthood. I am not insensitive to your plight but I do understand reality. and if you want the attention that the aesthetically pleasing get, it's time to make some changes. no one has the right to disrespect you as a person, but respect is earned, you can't guilt it out of anyone, on the flip side, I grew up a very very skinny child and schoolmates ( and large girls) cut me no slack at all. the name calling was just as bad as the fat people get, where was all that kindness then. we all have our mountains to climb, you can't change everyone, if you don't like the hand you were dealt, change it and quit whining for sympathy, ban the beauty pagents if they don't have fat chicks on there. and the car commercials, and for all your whining, I will bet you 95% of the chicks that answered you question would buy something they saw advertised by a young fit woman rather than a fattie, they are hypocrites as well. it's human nature.

Answer 4

That's just the way people are. Not all people, some don't judge people by their looks but most people do. Guys like hot girls but I really don't see why they have to be mean to overweight girls. Not being attracted to an overweight girl is one thing but being mean ... there's no reason for it. I've never experienced it, I've always been thin but I've had friends that were overweight and they always were treated poorly by guys. I don't think anyone but a guy that does it can really know why it happens. Maybe they think it's funny. What a bunch of jerks.

Answer 5

Just the mean guys that have no respect for anyone but themselves!! They will grow up evetually, but until then ignore them because they are nothing to you and probably never will be!! Just think, none of them will matter 10 years from now.....they're all losers that dont have anything better to do than to put others down so they feel better about themselves....self esteem issues!! Dont let them drag you down.... But, you might want to think about exercising daily, it is very healthy and gives you more energy you lose weight..... It is the best thing you can do for yourself! You only get one body, you should take care of it the best you can! Being overweight can also cause serious issues in the future! Just be careful, and take care!! Dont be as shallow as those guys are....karma will come back at them!!

Answer 6

That's hard to answer, because weight is a touchy subject. When I asked a relative what type of girl he wanted, he said a supermodel. Thing is he is overweight. My point is, most of the time we focus on what we want from people, but we don't realize people want things from us too. Say you have crushes on people like Brad Pitt, or some other good looking celebrity, ask yourself if you feel the same way about some over weight guy? The answer is usually no. So if you expect things that people look a certain way, so do other people expect things from who they want to date. Unfortunately guys view these girls or guys for that matter, as people who don't take care of themselves, who are not considerate about what other people want. It's a complicated issue.

Answer 7

Guys can be cruel at younger ages. Our society is changing though. More girls now are not into the extreme diets that they used to be so the skinny model types are not as common as they used to be. Looks will always be a factor for guys until they become mature. Don't let these jerks get you down. There are getting to be more guys out there that like girls for their fun personalities than being a size 4.

Answer 8

Over weightness indicates a weakness in a person's character in some way. Everyone has weaknesses, but being overweight is obvious immediately.

People don't respect others that are too dam fat! People SHOULD treat others with respect, but that doesn't happen, sorry.

Either deal with the way reality works, or change how you look. There is no third option.

Answer 9

honest answer, maximum guy's are too lazy to get to understand the man first. in my view, weight isn't a ingredient. Any guy who's in undemanding words searching for beauty received't get very a procedures, reason all he will discover is a similar like options of individual and at the same time as the ask your self fades, what's left. I for one might want to produce different issues in undemanding at the same time as those circumstances come. desire you've more beneficial useful success and there is someone obtainable...

Answer 10

because those guys are insensitive and boorish. many people that make fun of people for sport, are hiding a shortcoming of their own...seen or unseen.

the thing you need to do is to ignore the m-e-a-n things that are said. the more you worry about m-e-a-n people, the more ammunition you give them because you're paying attention to them. you're allowing yourself to be their target. i'm a big girl too, and once i accepted that i don't have to look like a bone rack, keep an appearance and self-esteem that satisfy me, i don't have the time or the care to worry about what others think or say.

sure its wrong for them to say the things they do, but only you can control how you're effected.

d-a-m is a structure to contol water flow. d-a-m-n is the spelling of the expressive word you want.