well me and this guy we dont go together we are friends but we act like we go together. we spend all our time together, we kiss, we bun each other and so forth but we havent taken it all the way but i have an exboyfriend that i care deeply about and we have been....u know, but i really like this other guy and we basically act like we are together but we are not therefore its not legit cheating because we arent really legit but we know what we want but for different reason we dont make it official, i really like this guy and i know i am cheating him out of something but am i cheating on him?
2007-03-16 08:59:00 · 21 answers · asked by Rygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm not necessarily I think u r cheating urself. U guys r not together (yet) so doing whatever with ur ex is not cheating but it could ruin ur relationship with ur friend/kinda bf. See if he finds out, he might not like u in that way any more and then u would have just cheated urself out of beilng able to actually be with this friend/kinda bf....i would forget the ex (he had his chance) and maybe ask ur other friend out..he might/probably say yes!!! Dont cheat urself out of a good realtionship with thi new guy
Good Luck..I rooting for u!!
2007-03-16 09:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't dating the other guy, then i supposed it's what you'd call FWB. [Friends with benefits] And though you aren't litterally cheating, because you and the other aren't "together" you are still sharing a connection with that person. It's not cheating, but at the same time, it's not fair to the other person. I think what you should do is talk to the person that you aren't "together but are" with. See what they think about it. Then you can decide whether it's litterally cheating or not.
2007-03-16 16:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating several people at once, as long as it is understood that you don't have a commitment, when that commitment is made with someone, and you go off with another then it is cheating....by the way there is a reason he is an ex... lose him and give the other more of a try.
2007-03-16 16:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by mdgbear68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said x-boy friend and nothing is official with the other guy, No, you are not cheating, there are no commitments, you're having fun right now take care and Good Luck
2007-03-16 16:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl, you need only ONE guy to make you happy. By your question its the new guy. If you still truly liked your ex.... he wouldn't be your ex. No its not TECHNICALLY cheating, however you still fall under the lines of a flirt/sl*t. Not a good name. So talk to the guy you like and make him your bf. You are already there, you just need to make it official so you don't feel tempted to flirt with your ex or appear as a sl*t to others.
2007-03-16 16:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I feel if neither of you has mentioned that you are NOT going to see or date other people then all is fair in love and war.. If there has been NO agreement, then date whom you please and don't feel guilty about it. If the other guys sees that your not sitting around waiting on him and you want ya'lls relationship to deepen and he hasn't made any verbal effort to deepen it then its his loss but if you want him to care more then maybe when he finds out your seeing someone else it will ignite a fire within him?
2007-03-16 16:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you're not officially together. You are overthinking the whole situation. Have fun and relax a little.
2007-03-16 16:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, as long as you both understand that you're not dating, it's not cheating. though you might think about kicking the ex to the curb and just going all out for this guy you might as well be dating.
2007-03-16 16:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It aint offical than your not cheating on him. Talk to him and see if you guys are actually a thing and take it from there.
2007-03-16 16:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's understandable to still be attracted to the ex, and you are free to be with whomever you want since you are not with the ex anymore, and so what if you are still doing the ex, you are single Have fun but play safe, you only have 1 life, enjoy it while you can!
2007-03-16 16:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by kimincalgary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋