OMG! Ok, I've liked this guy for like ever than I finally found out a couple of days ago that hes liked me to but he has a gf rite now! I was so happy! Well, i went to church that same nite and like all of a sudden 4 guys all asked me out on that same nite! I was sooooo confused! I put myself down all the time even if someone tells me how pretty or cute i look on some days! So i was so confused trying to figure out why they liked me! Its hard trying to pick who I like also theres two guys that I like but I also like that one! Please help me figure my pick out and myself!!!
2007-03-16 08:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by ~nickle_finder~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Which guy do you think likes you enough to stick with you for a very long time? It doesn't matter right now how cute they are: usually the cute ones break your heart accidenly when they decide that they like someone else better.
If that one guy has a girlfriend right now, I'd cool it with him. In other words, leave him alone, becuase you really do not want his girl getting mad at you. Some horrible stuff has happened to girls who played with someone else's guy, so JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE.
A few tips; When a guy dumps you unexpectedly, he won't understand why you can't get over him. So right now, try not to like anyone too much.
You're one lucky girl! I hope everything works out for you. God bless and good luck!!!
2007-03-16 09:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kate, the one and only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need some self-confidence. And no one can tell u who to pick...it has to come from ur heart sooo I would spend some time in my room and write down the pros and cons of every guy then throw them away and pick the guy that makes u feel most special!!!! And plz get some self-confidence also
good Luck gurl!!!
2007-03-16 09:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an answer to your full question BUT! The reason why all those boys asked you out suddenly is because you were exuding confidence because you found out that the other boy liked you! It's that simple. Confidence is the most attractive thing on the planet.
2007-03-16 09:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by luminant_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young,....don't choose..date different people and figure out what type you like or don't like by dating,...that is the point...when you "choose the one" you will know what kind of crap your not gonna put up with...tell them you can take me to the dance,movies ,..what ever but I'm not getting serious with no one for a while....stick to group dates and double dates...you too young to be calling someone "boyfriend"
2007-03-16 09:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to choose now, go out on a few dates with each of them and then you will know.
2007-03-16 09:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
us shouldnt put yourself down. pick the guy you have known the longest. i knew my husband for 10 years before we started dating and that worked.
2007-03-16 09:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by hello 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could wait for the guy you like. A lot of people do that.
2007-03-16 09:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by xanthostaos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can figure yourself out.Go with your heart
2007-03-16 09:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋