I have been in a brake up before and it took me over 3 months to get over im not ready for a new one. Read this and give advice if u got som
It all started Wednesday, March 13. It was a typical boring school day. In science a boy named Devon, popularest guy in school, started flirting with me. Saying he loved me and winking at me. I didnt think much of it i mean he flirts with girls 24/7 so i rolled my eyes and turned away. Little did i know that it was going somewhere. That night questions roamed my mind, did he like me? was he kidding? why was he like this? I didnt have any answers only questions. The next morning i forgot about Devon and just went on with my day until.... science. He flirted even more than the day before i thought i t would never end. Then at the moment out of nowhere he asked me out. Yes Devon i was so surprised i almost jumped out of my chair but i simply said " i dont know" he seemed surprised also, he probely never got a rejection like this. He flirted more untill i neared ran out the door as the bell rang. I tould my friends what had happened some said i should say yes, some said know but all i could say was nothing. He gave me a note saying these words " will you go out with me? i love you my screen name is *********** mwah love Devon. In Math people bugged me i was under major peer pressure so it over whelmed me so much i finally said yes to Devon. People tould me good for you and some tould me it was a mistake. I could understand both because he can be a jerk sometimes but then hes sweet and sensitive. I tried to keep my mind of him but nothing could compare of the miserable day.That night questions ran through my mind " Did i do the right thing what will happen, another brake up? Tears came rolling down my face i didnt know what to do with life. I cried my self to sleep that night, until one tear hit my hand, i washed it away as it were my life.
2007-03-16 08:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calm down. take it one step at a time. it sounds like he's a player to me, but i don't know. do you really like him or did you get pressured into saying yes? Maybe another breakup is what you need, only this time, you dump him. i know this sounds shallow, but it doesn't sound like you really like him. just think about what you do before you do it. everything will be ok. take some deep breaths. i'm proud of you for making it this far. just do what you think is right. everything will be fine, i promise.
2007-03-16 09:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by 569™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. You are way too young for all this nonsense. Since you are in this mess. Go out with him. Do not treat him special, treat him as you would an average guy, make him earn your respect and affection through his actions, not from peer pressure or expectations.
Don't sleep with him of course. Save that for a life long committed relationship.
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2007-03-16 15:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships you have, save one, will end in a break up. That 'one' being the last man you are with when you die. My advice to you would be to get over it...get a counselor because it sounds as if you have other issues...and have fun. If you are still in school, then you are too young to be worried about how your relationship (that hasn't even started) will turn out. Worry about school instead.
2007-03-16 16:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by any p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why but I dont know what to say : X
PS. I dont know what to say because I really enjoyed the way you described the story.
2007-03-16 16:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by -Vladimir- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to me u should live life in parts or u can call is phases if u feel tht this may b a good phase in my life thn live it joyfully without worrying about wat will happen ahead LIVE LIFE KINGSIZE dont worry everything will b fine
2007-03-16 15:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by fearsomeguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
2007-03-16 15:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by looking for a good 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋