I know a couple of girls who I think enjoys making their boyfriend or suitors jealous. My bestfriend likes to do that to me. I think she knows that I am crazy about her. She always talks to other guys when I am with her and flirts with a guy at work when I am working with her. But ofcourse, I do not show that I am jealous but deep inside I wanna go postal. Also when she was still with her x bf, she used to use me to make her bf jealous. She would tell her x that she is with me and she is having a good time and she would tell him that I have good relationship with her family and wanted her x to follow suit. Do women do this purposely for their own enjoyment?
2007-03-16 08:46:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To tell you the truth, as often as your friend seems to enjoy making the men she is with jealous, I would say she is immature and does not understand a real relationship. I really am not trying to diss her. It just is what it is.
Now, having said that, once in a great while, not weekly or even monthly, a girl might enjoy getting her lovers hackles up. Could be because she is feeling ignored, or feeling a little bustery near that time of the month or near ovulation or she is getting you back because she thinks you did it to her. Or maybe she wants to get a sexual jolt as you no doubt want to prove how worthy you are for her after you get home. So yes, sometimes women enjoy it. If it is all the time, one wonders, why does she need to do that?
2007-03-16 08:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really sick women do this for enjoyment. It's a power trip for others. They like to be the center of attention at all times.
Tell her you don't appreciate the games. Tell her that if she is trying to make you jealous to prove you love her then she doesn't understand you and is going to ruin something good. Tell her it's insulting and hurtful, then walk away and let her think about it. Either she's into you or not. Best to find out now.
2007-03-16 08:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by tammy_anderson68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro - You perpetuate her behavior. Your really into her, but in her friend zone, I am sure you don't find this to be very fulfilling, I know this sounds wrong, but just get away from her. The odds of you moving out of the friend zone is slim. Search for a website called Ladder Theory. Only when your not around will she even start to think about you.
2007-03-16 08:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bizpsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i really have feelings for someone, i don't like to make him mad. But if I'm in it for revenge or some other dumb idea, sometimes it's fun to make a guy jealous. Mean, but i'm over that kid stuff now! She may just be doing it because she knows it makes you mad, maybe it turns her on or something! Who knows? Confront her about it.
2007-03-16 08:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do like to make men jealous. Why? I have no idea, maybe its our way of getting you to put your arm around us, giving us another kiss. I think that what your Ex done, goes beyond trying to make someone jealous. To almost evil.
2007-03-16 08:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak no evil hear no evil if she does this maybe she wants someone else in my book I feel as a girl I should be your focus as a significant other if he talks about other girls then thats where he needs to be...or i in your case she needs to grow up
I do not do that All my ex's bf and new friend would have a problem with that and we'd def argue I just would not want to open that can of beans you feel me
2007-03-16 08:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like guys to express their feelings to them -which they are not good at- so they may use tools to induce them to talk which make things worse because guys won't understand :p
2007-03-16 08:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Basma E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice lady. Where is the friendship there? She is doing you harm, knowing you are crazy about her. Playing games ... I suggest cooling off that friendship for a while.
2007-03-16 08:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by poweranni 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all sounds very gamey. I do know women enjoy attention, but thats ridiculous.
2007-03-16 08:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they may do it to prove they are valued. It may make they feel good to know the other person likes them and they believe jealousy proves it.
2007-03-16 08:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋