So What Do I Do????

Question

So what else can I do to make this girl SEE that I'm not the same??? I do EVERYTHING for her. I love her more than life itself, yet she is still scared to trust me enough. : ' (

Answer 1

well, what did you do that is making her say you are just like every other guy? i mean, did you lie about something, or make her feel bad?

or is she just really messed up from past relationships? cause if thats the case all you can do is be there for her and not push her or anything like that. just give her time.

but if you did something, well then you'll just have to WIN the trust

Answer 2

First off, what did you do?

If you hit her, she has every right to be scared.

If you cheated, you'll need to earn her trust.

Use a handwritten letter, almost like signing a contract, Express how you feel about her, what she means to you, what you did wrong, OWN UP TO IT, explain how you see what was wrong, explain how you changed so as to never do it again.... then request permission to continue the relationship, then ask for a chance to just see her (no pressure on a decision) just to chill & talk...

Let her decide when she will see you, no matter what time & date, just say yes sure... show up & and on time!!!

Keep the conversation light, and dont mention what you did wrong unless she does. Then towards the end of the date, thank her for allowing time with you. Aplogize again for what you did... and leave with the understanding, she'll contact if she still wants you


Its called HUMBLING yourself, something most men never seem to master until its way too late.

Answer 3

Once trust is broken it's very hard, sometimes impossible, to get back. You should stop doing everything for her and stop trying to over compensate for whatever it is you've done. She's either going to forgive you and move on with your relationship, or you should break up because she can't keep punishing you for something she was supposed to forgive you for. Back off a little and she what she does, the more you grovel the more she'll whine and pout and make you "suffer for your sins". It's not fair to you for her to do that - just like I'm sure it's not fair to her whatever you did - but the bottom line is, if she's going to forgive you (she won't ever forget) then she should go ahead and forgive you and let it go. Good luck.

Answer 4

I can't give you the proper advice unless I know what you were like originally. Were you unfaithful to her? Were you a drug addict? Whatever the reason she does not trust you, prove to her that you're a new guy by continuing to respect her and avoid all activities that she associates with your former "bad" self. Trust is a difficult thing to earn back. It may take some time, so be patient. If you're sincere, she'll probably open up to you.

Answer 5

Dude, quit doing EVERYTHING for this woman! If she cares for you, she'll stick around, trust you, and you can be yourself. Keep in mind that treating a woman too good is the perfect recipe for her to get bored with you and move on.

Answer 6

she may have had bad experiences in the past and it may be hard for her to trust guys. don't push her, show her you will wait and she will come around.

Answer 7

stop giving her reasons not to trust you and when youve stopped, keep it up, she'll then get over the past

Answer 8

Kiss her in public, And show her a lot of attention in public and when you walk on the road tell your friends that she is your "wife". and kiss her when you tell them

Answer 9

Stop being a winey baby

Answer 10

there nothing that you can do you have to wait for her to trust you