cause today i had this feeling, and it just felt like I was the only one without someone, and a few were kissin and holding hands and u know - all that - i was just starin at the cealing....
and then I got this feeling of being extreamly alone - and i felt so out of place, for a few mins just felt real real bad and totally low
didnt know what to do or say, and this happened all of a sudden.... why? what does this mean? and why was i jealous of my friends or somethin - that aint right!!??
plz advice and reply soon,...
thanks
2007-03-16 08:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry it just means you are not used to being single yet! its quite good when you get used to it.
and when you do get used to it, you will get a confidence about you, because you will learn what interests you really do like without the distraction of someone else, you will also find your trueself, and your strength of character will grow with your self esteem and confidence, i say embrace it, while you are single- this all happened to me, then i met someone and we ended up married. - but focus on getting aquainted with being single and learn to enjoy it. that way when someone comes and sweeps you off your feet, you will be able to keep sound mind and judge whether they are right for you. and wont be easily manipulated, used or controlled. because you would never again be affraid of being single so your fear can not be used against you- so embrace it sis, theres power in it!
2007-03-16 09:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, of course this is normal. actually, this is how i'm feeling now. i feel really alone and it bothers me when i see other people in love as well. i mean, i'm happy for whoever is in love you know?? but want someone for myself. you need to decide if you are happy being alone for the most part or if you'd rather be in a relationship. if you are only sad when you are around others, then thats normal and you don't need to be in a relationship. make a choice and realize that if you do choose to be in one, you have to work to keep the relationship going so is it worth it right now?? good luck!! :)
2007-03-16 08:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Essie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friends not to be so mushy when they're around you tell them how you're feeling, if your jealousy or envy gets worse stop associating with them for awhile it might help you realize their value as they should care about your uncomfortable feelings. You could make light of it and start a mission for everyone to set you up with the one for you. Jealousy is ugggggly
2007-03-16 08:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way especially when everyone around you have someone, you feel hollow and empty. But which would you prefer? As Chris Rock would say.. when you are not in a relationship.. you want to kill yourself.. if you are married.. then you want to kill your spouse.. lol
I feel alone too.. for 2 years now.. you are not alone..
2007-03-16 08:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you were not jealous. You are only human, and your "friends" should have been sensitive to your feelings.We all know that three is a crowd. Next time they ask you out tell them it should be a "Girls Only" event. Cheer UP!
2007-03-16 08:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by jokimben_el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that's completely normal. It happens to everyone. All my friends have boyfriends. I get so lonely when they're talking about them. It's ok. It's normal. You just have to get through it. It's all right. There's nothing wrong with you.
2007-03-16 08:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by 569™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋