My now ex, left me to be with someone else. He told me we were "not right for each other at this moment"!!?? When I found out why, he was seeing another girl. Not only that, but he told this girl that he never really loved me and was never attracted to me. Now, I dont have a problem in the looks dept. lets say I dont have a problem getting a date. I'm not vain, however, why did he have to devalue me?? If this girl asked about me, why couldnt he give her a simple answer and move on with her. Well, it got back to me and I lost it on him, I yelled and called him names...out of anger...I never did before, I never even swore at him before ever. Well, now he his no longer with this girl, and we dont speak anymore. We were together for 2yrs. They were together for maybe3-4 months. Do you think he regrets what he did and do you think he his ashamed? Also, coming from a guy's point of view, do you think he meant those things he said about me? Or was his intention of me not finding out and if
2007-03-16 08:42:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
things didn't work out, he would of come back to me. Like when he said we are not right for each other at this moment?
2007-03-16 08:42:48 · update #1
Yes he truly is a DOG. He obviously found you attractive or he would not have desired you in the first place. You've got it - and that's what he liked - what you have.
Keep reminding yourself that he is that sort of guy that only goes out with girls for what they can give him. NO reall man behaves that way. You were played, and the sad reality is that it will happen to others too. He's like that. Keep walking as far away from him as you can girl !
2007-03-16 08:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I very much doubt it, but you never know some guys are in relationships just for sex but yes i think he regrets it you have a nice body and love him enough to ask this question then you should go to him and say sorry and ask him if he will forgive you if not move on if he forgives you then keep on going give him another try who knows you might enjoy a break from dating. I did and got her back reguardless off our yelling when i left her for i girl i wasnt happy with so give him another cahnce go to him and say you love him.
2007-03-16 08:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jhary G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about what you said he was with you for two years and when saw something that got his attention he left you for her.. He said what he said and he meant I'm sorry I don't mean ti hurt your feelings and it's not what you wanted to hear I know. But if he wanted to get back with you he would be calling you asking you for forgiveness and telling he didn't mean what he said about you. It's not your fault so don't blame your self for anything.. he's just a dog.. and what goes around comes around. you should start seeing other guys and drive him crazy see what that does to him don't wait for him to come back to you.
2007-03-16 08:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All in all, you aren't with him now, and it sounds like you shouldn't even try to get back with him. If you 2 really were together for 2 yrs, then don't worry, i'm sure he really really liked you! Maybe not 'loved', but u will never know, i dunno......I think it best not to worry about it and just move on, try and find an honest or semi=honest guy you like, who likes u back.
2007-03-16 08:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys do a lot of talk to get in with a girl! he probably didn't mean what he said, but it seems like he doesn't want a serious relationship right now. don't go to him, if he wants you back he will come to you and don't make it easy if he does.
there is definitely no problem with you because he wouldn't have been with you for that long.
i hope that helps
2007-03-16 08:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He cheat on you once and didn't think anything of it... he even dragged you good name through the mud. He's a dog, he'll cheat on you again given the chance. Chalk this one up to experience and move on.
(Don't set your self up as a place to park his d**k between girlfirends.)
2007-03-16 08:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you enjoy it when you heard all those nasty things said about you? Loose the looser and move on with your life.Leave the emotional baggage behind right now,move on girl.He never really deserved you.You cherish what you deserve and deserve what you cherish
2007-03-16 08:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by jokimben_el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just said that stuff to make her feel better...don't know how that works, honestly. as to the rest, just move on. go get yourself a man who values you properly and kick thoughts of him out the door. he messed up, and whether he regrets it or not, you shouldn't take him back, because he'll probably just do it again.
2007-03-16 08:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on. What he did to you is unforgivable. It really doesn't matter what exactly he was thinking for he is man trash. Thankfully you are attractive. Find a good looking man that is honest and true. You will find him to be a good husband and father of your children too.
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2007-03-16 08:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is a player,, he will say anything to impress the ladies,, write this off as a learning experience and move on..
2007-03-16 08:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by brls2000 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋