He broke up and now has decided (over a month later) that he misses me and wants to be friends (after not talking for this time). Does this have hidden agenda?
2007-03-16 08:41:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We never had sex.
2007-03-16 09:22:25 · update #1
He does not currently have a girlfriend.
2007-03-16 09:51:03 · update #2
it means he wants some ***...ignore him
2007-03-16 08:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so sudden? I think if he wanted to be friends he would have made that clear from the start. It sounds like he is trying to get to you. If he misses you he wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place. And as for hidden agenda I think you have probably more important things to worry about than him. Let him regret losing a beautiful thing. Still try to be civil and if he isn't then forget him!!!!!!
2007-03-16 11:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Gigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. He made a serious error in judgment and wants you to forgive him. He figures that being friends is about all he can expect since he broke up with you and because you are wondering about a hidden agenda.
You know him better than most, and will have to trust your own judgment to see if he does or does not have a hidden agenda. I hope for your sake that he does not.
2007-03-16 08:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly he nevertheless cares for you and misses you. i'm a similar with my ex, in spite of the undeniable fact that i'd like to work out him as he always makes me chuffed it might want to be a really undesirable decision, because then for months on end i love him further and extra... while if i do not see him for a at the same time as the feeling positioned on off slightly! that's as a lot as you, now that's been a year you may've grown up more beneficial and it may artwork more beneficial useful in case you've been to work out one yet another back?
2016-12-02 02:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is really a sadist with little regard for you or your feelings. If he does have a hidden agenda, don't wait to find out. No good can come out of this.
2007-03-16 08:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have a hidden agenda. But keep in mind, that he just might want to keep his connection with you.
2007-03-16 08:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by poweranni 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know as well. I am going through something similiar, although waiting to see if he misses me or if I will ever hear from him.
I'm sure he does miss you and maybe has regret. I would be civil to him, but not pay too much attention to him and see what he really wants. Good Luck...and best wishes.
2007-03-16 08:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might want you back or he might just want to have a good friendship with you after the break up. It's not really good to be almost enemies or someone who ignores their ex just because they have broken up. Talk to him and ask him if he means he wants to be with you again or is it that he just wants to be friends and nothing more. ~good luck~
2007-03-16 08:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by ILuvMe06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He's looking for an easy booty call. Run, don't walk, in the other direction. You deserve someone better.
If he really wanted to be your friend, he would have at least tried to be civil.
2007-03-16 08:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya it's called head games. Unless your a strong person and into games I would tell him to keep on goin. Good Luk.
2007-03-16 08:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be harsh... but yes, I think it does. He wants to be friends and then more than friends-- does he have a girlfriend? If not, and you don't want to get back together, beware!!
2007-03-16 08:45:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anynomous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋