I have a great boyfreind who cares about me a lot. I also care about him. But, my ex and I are really close friends. One day, he invited me to a picnic with my best friend, and we talked for a while. He pulled me aside and told me he still had feelings for me. I felt really weird and made a quick excuse to go home. After that, he has been hanging out with me a lot, and I think I might like him. My boyfriend is getting really jealous and I don't know what to do.
HELP!
2007-03-16 08:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop seeing your ex! it will only confuse you more. If after you have spent sometime away from him you still have feelings for him then end things with your boyfriend. Then I would wait longer before starting a relationship with your ex
2007-03-16 08:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by ambrosius15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know this is hard but you need to choose! I know right now you are most likely thinking, but I just 'effin' can't it's impossible!!! Well I sure as hell know that! It has happened to me 50 biggillion times and I'm sick of it too!! But trust me, if you don't decide, there will be some major drama charging your way from both sides of the battlefield! And if you don't choose fast, you won't be able to have either man! If they see that you have to think about which one of them you like better, they will think that they can't trust you and you don't love them enough! Even if they keep persisting, they will not send back as much love as they would if you choose right away! So, please, learn from me and don't repeat what I did, just choose fast! If this is a hard decision then whoever you choose will be amazing! Try making a list of all the good things and bad things of them. Compare them and make another list of the good and bad things that would happen if you choose one of them! Just try it! I wish you the BEST of luck and you can talk to me anytime if you need any more advice or help! I'm always here! You can do it and don't waste too much time thinking!!
~ <3 Morgan <3 ~
2007-03-16 08:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by morgan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care about our boyfriend then you shouldn't be thinking about your ex. you can be friends with him but you need to keep it as a friends and nothing more friendship. its normal for your bf to be jealous because he wouldn't want you hanging out with your ex in the first place. which you really shouldn't do. but if you can keep it as you and your ex only being friends, you need to explain that to him. then you need to explain to you bf that you and ur ex are just friends.
2007-03-16 08:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is which one means more to you. NO, I wouldnt be around my ex if Im with my Current bf in the first place.
2007-03-16 08:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should chose who you like the best. But make sure that the one that you are chosing is the one you are really going to like and you won't feel bad about your choice.
2007-03-16 08:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by littleangel30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with yur heart mate but please dont leave one hanging that is wrong , one must stand out more than the other ? why did you split up in the first place , make a decision soon but make it the right one!
2007-03-16 08:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out which one you are interested in before someone gets hurt!
2007-03-16 08:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whos presence do you value more?
if its just a little crush don't waste a good relationship with your boyfriend
if you like him more then your boyfriend i think you know what you need to do
2007-03-16 08:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by rowanhood92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? are you still taking to your ex!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 08:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋